Imagine you are in the street.

Opener.
Time constraint.
Routine.

How do you get her number then ?
Do you ask directly for it ? I don't like to ask for it.
How can you suggest you would like to keep in touch ?

Never ASK for the #. On the street, at the bar or wherever, when you feel like there is enough attraction and momentum build up, TELL her to give you her #. You might wanna add something like "... so we can finish the conversation/hang out/have more fun (if she hinted that you were funny or laughed at your jokes)" or something else along those lines

it never happened to me that the girl said straight up "NO", however once this bank clerk left me hangin, kept up the convo but never gave me her number... that s a pretty good cue the girl is not (that) interested so move on if that happens!

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OPEN.
Time constraint becuase you are meeting your friends and going opposite ways... or if in the same bar you are meeting them at a new bar...
then i would compliment something she is wearing, she tried hard to look good for you...let her know you noticed

that will do one of two things:

build comfort and trust for you

or

do nothing...

ater she thanks you say yea.. but i have to go meet my friends im late...how can i see you again later?

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Easy man....... simply tell her you'll call her, and either give her your phone or hand her a pen. You're not giving her the oppurtunity to say no.

I said to a girl i had already built a lot of rapport with...

"Give me you're number." Then she repeats "give me your number" and added "smooth"

"Sorry I have to go now, such a shame we cant stay in contact, oh well"
"Whys that?"
"I'm a secret agent" (You can add an extra comment on the end if you wish)

Usually, enough talk will lead to giving it to you, try it. I've done it stacks of times.

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What a title!

But what the best to get it when you and the HB only been talking for about 6 minutes, Do I build more comfort? Or i didn't build enough attraction, and went to soon to the comfort and ended up LJBR zone?

Two suggestions:

1) Use multi-threaded storytelling, and leave some interesting story unfinished. Use your best story, one that you know gets people interested and demonstrates value. Then tell her, "We have so much to talk about, but I have to go. We should talk sometime." If you've done everything correctly up to this point, she may voluntarily give you her number, or ask for hers.

2) Use a timebridge # close. Plant an idea in the conversation -- a cool party, little-known restaurant/bar, etc... It should be interested, and you should OVERHYPE it. If it's a good bar, say that they make the best martinis in the state or something like that. I remember listening to some RSD material where tyler durden even suggests overhyping something absurd about the place. "This diner, the napkins are absoultely awesome. Any mess -- they clean it up faster than any napkin you've ever SEEN!". The reason you do this is to make the location something special -- an experience, not just a venue. Then, at the end of the conversation, after she has been thinking about this place/event/whatever you have told her about, invite her and ask for her # so you can tell her the details later.

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I wouldn't do shit unless I got 3 IOI's from the chick in question. If you don't get 3 IOIs, then dont' even bother. Chances are she'll flake out when you call. You need to get those 3 IOIs and qualify her.

Quick question regarding this. Do you count each incident of an IOI or each different IOI. For example would you count every hair toss or would they have to be separate types of IOIs like a hair toss, a big smile and long gaze, and a playful punch in the arm?

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