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PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 3:20 am 
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I guess I've never considered posting a field report. But I know how much they help me, so maybe this can help someone else out.
To those of you who don't know, I am an openly gay female and I use all of the game you guys use to also pick up women. Oh yeah. Girls dig it on my side of the fence, too! :P
So here is a rundown of last weekend:

Went out with my newly single friend D(straight guy, very attractive) and he showed me around KC a bit. Stopped by some crazy awesome headbang bar downtown. Sat at the bar, got a couple drinks. Saw a really cute tan girl with kitty ears make eye contact with me, look away, make eye contact. Approached. She introduced me to her table of hot "Chaos Kittens", where there was a Betty Pagie looking chick that could come straight out of a 1950's pin up magazine. Talked her up a bit. Went back over to my friend D. Those where the only two hot chicks there, so I got both their numbers and bounced. This was a "straight" bar, and I was very pleased with myself.
So we went to the gay bar downtown, not too far away, where I could really sarge some girls. And, it's true about the hot straight chicks hanging at the gay bar, by the way. If you guys were wondering if you should hang with a lesbian at a gay bar to pick up chicks, you're dead on. Anyway, I digress!
So, I already got two numbers straight away and was feeling pretty good. Saw tons of attractive females at the bar. Had to use the "loo" as they say in the UK. Saw a girl in there washing her hands who'd I seen minutes before hanging with some hot girls, but she was a total wallflower. I exploited this, obviously. I chatted her up in the bathroom...easy. I told her to take me to meet her friends, she did. I walked up, most of them were tipsy. HB 8 with a really nice rack in a tank top immediately started slapping my ass, I was in. I hung out with them, then I hung with Doug away from the group. We met back upstairs where I K closed the HB8. I got her number and 2 other numbers of girls who were cute. I F closed HB 8 a week later, due to scheduling conflicts. Also, while watching the show, the HB 10 that D and I noticed straight away was making eyes at D. I was saddned by this, of course. She then sent her flamboyantly gay male friend over to D to tell him that she thinks he's super cute. He goes to talk to her (not a PUA by any means, btw) and he BLOWS it big time. I try to help him, but it's too far gone. So we exit the set.
Upstairs, while I'm surrounded by D and all the cute girls from earlier, I see the HB 10 wandering around and she passes by, so i re-open her. She comes over, tells me she's looking for her friend. I make small talk, get her number, tell her to give me a hug and a kiss on the cheeck (which she complies to) and we leave for the night shortly after.
I texted HB 10 tonight (about 2 weeks after the initial meeting at the bar)
me: hey you. (i forgot her name and I'm pretty sure I put it in my phone wrong...lol) it's B. We met at ___________ a couple weekends ago. (I understand you don't usually say these kinds of things in a text, but she hadn't heard from me in quite a while and I'm still unsure if she's straight/bi/curious)
HB10: hey! i thought you forgot about me
me: ha! i did. ;) i'm just teasin. school just started so i was gettin ready for that. how's my fav trouble maker doin?
HB10: haha. pretty good. just hangin at my dad's this evening. what are you going to school for?
me: architecture. i gotta warn you. i've got big plans. i can't remember if you said you were in school.
HB10: baking and pastry major. I too have big plans
me: omg. you're my hero. i've always wanted to know how to make a ginger bread house!
HB10: i can help with that :)
me: see i knew you'd come in handy. i know a lot of girls but none of them can help me make a ginger bread house. k so what's it gonna look like when we're done?
HB10: amazing!!! that's all you need to know lol
me: ha ok but i'm holding you to this. pencil me in for Friday. if you're nice you can hang out with me after we make this amazing house :P

and now i have yet to hear back from her. anyway....
Also, the HB8 I F closed the other night..I texted her twice (she went on Vacay out of the country on Tuesday) didn't respond to either text and that bothered me a little, because I'm not sure if I made a wrong move (maybe too clingy afterwards?)
or maybe she just really was legitimately busy...and she said something odd wile we were making out...she looked at me and said "What are you gonna do without me for three weeks?" to which I responded with, "You mean, what are YOU gonna do without ME for three weeks?" to which she responded with, "You're gonna be doin homework, that's what you'll be doing!" I found that odd. I responded to that by F closing her.....ha.
critiques welcome, of course. also..i have a HUGE problem going from number close to f close (usually) and also setting up day two's. i'm wondering if i am too aggressive...
Thanks, guys!

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 4:13 am 
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sweet it works for girl on girl too, i had a field day masturbating on your field report. now on to the business end. you created attraction which is good. but then you have to create comfort and make her invest in you. ask her to do favours for you, she likes baking and cooking, let her cook something for you. start out small like ask her to hold your drink, then ask her to text you for something and then move on and eventually you can seduce her to f-close which is the textbook approach. the anxiety you faced in the last part of your report is normal, alot of people have that when someone stops communication for a while. thats why a freeze-out is such a strong weapon. as long as you ended well, you should always try to be the one who leaves early just before you are supposed to. dont wait untill the end but leave a little earlier than is expected and give them something to long for.


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Elg: thanks a lot, man! I will try to post more reports as time goes on. i'm in college now, and college is no time for a girl like to me have lonely nights! :)


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Awesome Field Report. Please keep them coming.

When it comes to text game one tip that I know for sure is you want to mix in some general boring chit chat with your DHV stories, negs, etc. Your texts are very powerful but they may be communicating too much interest too early.

With both the 8 and the 10 I suggest you freeze out at this point and wait for them to come to you, I know it is hard but do this even if it takes a week. Make them wonder what you have going on.

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Phazzle: thanks a lot! I will definitely do that, and in the mean time, work on meeting a few more girls this weekend.
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Edit:
wow, not a few minutes after I posted the above, HB10 texted me and said, "hey, sorry I didn't text back last night. Whatcha up to?"
I'm just gonna wait to write her back at least an hour, maybe more, and respond with something like, "oh you know, just saving the world" or something playful.


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Good for you B. I am sure it will work out for you.

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Nice read, keep it up!

I suppose that cold approaching is generally harder for homosexuals than for heterosexuals, only for the fact that a majority of the population is straight. I guess I just assume that any girl I approach is straight and therefore a potential lay, but you can't really make the opposite assumption, I suppose. However, do you do a lot of cold approaches, or do you wait for AIs and IOIs before approaching? And if you do a cold approach, how do you go about it?

I guess reading poeticlyskuac's thread on body language (in the natural-game section, I think) could really help in finding out who may be a potential target.

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Mungo: wow, I didn't even know there was a thread in there, I will be sure to check it out! Thanks for the tip.
I do a pretty even mixture of both. I don't usually cold approach unless I'm in a venue where there is a higher probability of meeting other lesbian women, though. I think it's really a comfort thing for me. However, once I'm in a gay bar, all bets are off as I consider this "my territory", as I'm sure a lot of guys do when they're in a venue that's prominently straight and full of straight women looking to hook up with men.
Thanks for all the feedback on this thread, guys. I really appreciate it, especially the posts that have been objective and concise.
I plan on going out this weekend (may or may not hang out with this girl I met online tonight or tomorrow) and doing some more sarging.
I'll post another report then. :)


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Elgordo...I hardly think that I'm..."lucky"..but thanks? haha. It's been a hard road with my sexuality, listening to lewd comments from men and then they all think that when I say "I'm gay", that it's some sort of hard-ball game of cat and mouse.
I actually think it's easier for me to pick up women being a lesbian, but I only think this is true in certain venues, as in, gay bars, or bars where I know there is a good possibility of meeting gay women. And I also believe that I pick up as many women as I do because I'm very, very secure in my identity and my sexuality. For a lot of gay women, they're wallflowers, because they're afraid of who they are and what others might think of it. I think I've posted that before, but it's true. I think that all in all, men do have a harder time picking up women because they've always gotten hit on by men. Hell, it's even hard to game me if you're a straight guy because of all the awful things the tools before have said and done. As soon as a guy walks up to me, I'll admit, I'm already noticing then things I don't like about him straight off, and I'm not even attracted to men. You guys picking up women and busting through all those obstacles impresses me, and I commend you all for doing it all the time successfully.
I think this game is more necessary for straight men than it is for lesbians, by far. Yes, I have a couple of things working for me, as in, I hardly ever get a bitch shield, I don't really have to worry about AMOG's, and I've never experienced LMR that wound up being actual resistance. Maybe it's me doing things right, or maybe it's the fact that I'm a girl and that may be just it.
Good points, Elgordo, for sure. It's interesting, when you think about it.


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wow. This situation is...strange


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How so?


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[quote=""B""]How so?[/quote]

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And? What's your point?
Please do not respond to my posts with things that are not constructive feedback or with things that are offensive.


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I admire you B, finding yourself between straight men and still want to learn how to pickup.:D

Im not sure to agree if gaming for a man is more difficult then for a woman. We both have certain things we do were we know it works. Question, do you always go with a male friend to a gay bar, and does that work better for you?
And so to ask a question that no one have asked yet: You've talked about when a guy approached you, you saw many different things that you didn't like even though your not attractive to the guy. What is it that dislikes you in guys, or better yet, what do you think guys can change in their game or just in their doings to attract more woman or to present themselfs in a more positive way.
(sorry for my bad English)

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Hey C&F,
Thanks a lot! :) I do feel more comfortable going with my friend because i think the feeling of being "protected" helps my inner game a lot. if things go south, he's there and i know he's got my back. and i also thing it adds a bit of social proof, and it really helps him, too.
as far as things they can do differently...
I honestly don't know if there's anything they can do. I mean, I've never been approached by a PUA, only by an AFC. Actually...I take that back. I MAY have been recently approached by a PUA in training at school. I was sitting at my drafting desk and he came up, very casual, slight smile, very under the radar and he said, "hi...show me your tattoo". I sort of knew what he was up to and I was quite intrigued and I decided to do a little "hard to get", just for the hell of it and continued drawing, showing him that I wasn't going to be his normal nice and welcoming set to open. It went well, he did well. I told him, just a second and then explained the tat to him to which he responded with, "I said show me, not tell me". it was okay, he seems like a cool guy.
So maybe this works in the male favor. As in, pick up seems like a larger community than it really is, and I have only ever been approached by one guy who knew what he was doing.
Maybe you're right about picking up, no matter what gender or sexuality. There are pros and cons to each aspect of the game, that's for sure.
I really appreciate the thoughts. :)
I guess my advice is...come in under the radar as much as possible. Body language really resonates, too. Using hands while talking enthusiastically will help to lower the "bitch shield" that it always up. Cocking your head to the side helps, too, it's just a subliminal thing that disarms.

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