Man this chick sounds like shes read some posts about negs and controlling her frame lol, im no expert but i think what you need to do is bring her to your frame she gave you a neg and a shit test saying "You haven't yet proven to me that you are wise enough to hear my story. Let's make a deal: You tell me an interesting and fun story about yourself and in return, I will tell you mine. Deal?". Now I dont know what you said to this girl but in this situation i would say "now why would i want to do that for? i like to be a mystery man so i dont kiss and tell

(say with a smile)". By doing this i would steal her frame and make her the one thats dumbstrucked! To me when im gaming im always in my own frame no matter what i dont let someone else steal my frame or get trapped in theirs, thats all it is man you just gotta keep your cool and control your frame.
hope this helps and let me know how it went
P.s: Im new to the community and I learned from experience id appreciate it if someonce can comment on how im doing so far to get me on the right track Thanks
