Ok, we're all here for one reason; we want to improve


So instead of all the bitching about newbies and people looking for quick fix solutions on here, lets help.

I came on here as an AFC, simply only having read The Game. However, despite my HUGE lack of field experience, I told you my experiences, what worked for me. And it is THIS which is what we should all do.

No matter how small or how silly it may seem, if it worked then lets help each other and tell!

For instance, I just sent a text to a girl a few minutes ago who I've only met once at a party about two weeks ago.

Me: So I guess the real question is, if you could have anything in the world, what would it be?

HB8: What?! Where on earth did that come from? It would pros be something really superficial like lots of clothes hehe or james bond lol. X

Me: Ha, daniel craig? with or without the blue wimming boxers? just seeing whether you're a simple one to please.xx

HB8: Haha do like a bit of daniel, or pearce b rosnan hehe. I dunno with superficial things im relatively easy to please but with other things i think im quite fussy.X

Me:I think the thing i'd want most is the worlds second best spooning partner ahhhhh yea.x

HB8: Haha why not the best spooning partner?! Oh i spose its coz youre the best are you?x

Me: I knew we had a connection! keep it real x

HB8: Ha its coz we both have sexytime thoughts in our heads! Lol. seriously like everything i think of or say is dirty, a sexual innuendo or has sexual connotations! X


By no means am I a PUA. But my god have I improved. I'm confident, I have no fear of being shot down or dodgy silences in conversation. I now have opportunities of meeting new women where as before, I simply wouldn't even consider it. I no longer care what people think when I wear certain things, the way I act is me, and they can either love it or get lost.

This is what we all want. All I want to do is improve, more and more. Yet I want to use my own material, to be a creator, not a user. For that way, I feel an even greater sense of achievement.

So instead of using all of the material here, "leaching" as it were, i'm going to "seed". To help us all to make the world a happier place.

In turn, I ask all of you to also seed, to share your knowledge, whether it be a magic trick, a one minute routine, a kino tactic, a damn funny joke, a weird opener, or simply where to get a really kl pair of sunglasses.

LETS HAVE IT


Calvin.

I understand what you mean.

But from our point of veiw ... or mine is that i took the time to research and get the material and learned and practiced it...they come on with out reading any material and then ask question like what is an opener... are we the dicks for thinking its a dumb question or are they the dicks for thinking we can build them up from ground zero and have all the time in the world for them... this is not a forum so we can help you with that girl you havnt talk to in 2 years... they need to get the material and read it like most of us have and then ask a valid question... not a question like how do i talk to a girl

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I'm pretty sure most of the bitching is about people who don't SEARCH before asking a very basic question.

The more experienced PUAs here should be spending their time answering new questions, not reading a "what's the best opener" thread or a "Mystery destroyed the PUA community" post by someone who joined in september of 2007.

New PUAs are welcome, people who want answers spoon fed to them will not be recieved well.

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I like yours better, it has more precise wording. lol

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