OK, I'm seeing a milf who I've been with before and we get on really well, but she's v independant and does things I'm not sure I understand.

Although we've shagged regularly in the past, she was never touchy feely and never initiated kino. She still does things like when I go to kiss her she'll say "don't be silly" and will sometimes hold my hand and then not want to other times.

She obviously likes hanging out with me cos she asks me out to walk with her and her dogs. I don't suck up to her, or buy her gifts or shit like that so she's not getting anything out of me in that way.

I've tried some PUA techniques and DHV but never seem to be able to get any visible attraction from her. I'm pretty sure I'm not coming across as needy and I'm often C+F with her and she'll playfully hit me etc.

How can I proceed with this to generate more attraction in her?

ZantUK

Oh, also...

I'm going on holiday with girl soon too and we've rented a cottage. There's a cool four poster bed and she keeps saying that she'll have that bed and I'll be in the other one.. I'm not sure if she's serious as she says it in a jokey type tone.

Should I not try to push her on this? When we go out again should I not try to kiss her/hold hands etc? I'm really not sure how to play this?

Any help would be cool thanks!