Lately, I have been getting pretty good at getting to know women by flirting, I am know at the point where I'm approaching mix sets and sometimes I meet guys that are very easy going and cool with women. I would like to expand my social circle and replacing old useless male friends with new ones but I don't know how to get to know a guy cux the only way I know how to do it is by flirting but that would be gay if I did it with a guy.

my question is: how do you get to know a guy? like what would be some good non-gay questions that would make him like you and still made him think you are superior than him?

I often have no problems getting along with guys (which sucks because I'm after girls).

There's 3 things guys respond to:

1. Hot Girls
2. Sports
3. Cars

If you can find out which one he's interested in you can carry a conversation for a long time.

If you came up to me and talked about hot girls and sports, I'd definitely be more open to you, I'm just not too interested in cars.

Heh.."no homo"..heh yaright

lol jk

I'm pretty good with guys who act normal but I'm not too good with girls.

I notice guys respond well with comments that are insults, but joking. Usually I say the comment with a smile or laugh right after, not giving a shit about how they respond[although they insantly smile or laugh too]. For example..they're wearing a pink shirt..[with a fake laugh]..cute shirt, followed by a genuine smile[cause I think it's funny]. This develops pretty good rapport. If you don't use the laugh or smile at the end I'm sure they would probably think you're trying to out-alpha them, and they would become somewhat hostile/defensive. You can't do this with everyone though, some guys are naturally humorless and will become defensive no matter what because they're LSE buzzkills. All I can say is try to be a good reader of people.

Another is the respect-respect. This involves none of the cheap semi-insults towards each other. Most guys I know respond well towards topics geared towards the 3 Dither mentioned as well as videogames. The most common sports I find guys like are basketball, football, baseball, boxing and MMA.

I believe in order to make male friends one needn't try too hard. Unless we're really unpopular, we end up finding guys of the same type as we are. Just.. don't simply neglect guys in a social circle just because your main aim is to score with a chick. The right order: Expand your male social circle> Then expand your female social circle. A guy with a lot of male friends is found to be attractive by women.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

be friendly but dont suck any dick... (pun intended) if you show respect to another guy they will be your friend. Just dont treat them like you would a girl.

If your stuck for conversation, talk about cars, alchohol and good places to go in the area.

Want to add them to your social circle? easy just say hey man im going now but we should go pick up some chicks next weekend, you down? no guy is going to refuse the hunt for the cunt.

Agreed.

To be honest, I have more trouble talking to guys than I do with girls, I always feel intimidated by guys, specially guys who are bigger than me and could easily kick my ass. But, I've found that nearly all guys are friendly if you come across as friendly. If there are some guys in a set I want to approach, I'll approach the guy and strike up a conversation with him, whilst negging the girls, that way I do not convey interest and I begin to earn the trust of the guy. Its only when I find out the relationship between the guy and the girls that I can begin gaming the girl.

Just talk about stuff, conversation usually flows easily once you've opened a guy, just practice man. Even if you go out just to practice talking to guys for one night, learning to talk to guys will give you a better advantage over gaming girls, build up social proof.

talking to a guy doesn't make you a homo dude it depends on how you do it..
for me when i talk to a guy i jus pretend like im talking to one of my old friends from the past and i act cool about it, but if you act nervous around a guy then he might think youre trying to hit on him and you dont want him getting the wrong idea about things.

id have to say topics isnt really relevant jus strike out a conversation that pops into your head, your not talking to a girl so why does it matter?

id say something like:

Dilaks: hey man whats up?
Guy: not alot jus work... blah blah blah
Dilaks: oh yeah sounds cool man, you wanna drink and go to town sometime?
Guy: yeah sure man.. lets do it this w.e
Dilaks: yeah man sounds good to me... c u on the w.e

a simple routine/line like that usually work for me

Talk about sports,find something common,or something that you don't agree on