i have a girlfriend for 2 weeks now
and she keep on testing me.. its driving me crazy :S
for example, she tells me that yasterday, there was a guy who tried to hit on her (she said that when we met eachother in her house) then later after i left, we talked a bit on facebook, and then she mentioned the guy who hit on her, but she said he asked for her phone number and she gave it to him. well didnt get excited cause of it because its just a phone number (im reacting to it as a shit-test) so i just said 'good for him =] guess he did a pretty good job hitting on you", and then she cracked out and said "why dont you get mad? i mean a guy is hitting on me you should get mad and say 'ill kill this guy who tried to hit on you'"

another test, the first day we met she gave me a shit test saying she have a boyfriend, well i passed through it, but then a week after that (after the KC) she said that she never said she had a boyfriend, she said that she only said goodbye to the guy, and then they kissed a "goodbye kiss" (on the mouth) which lasted for like 1 second, when im almost sure she said "we kissed a french kiss 2 days ago"

k that was just the intro for the test ^^ 2 days ago she said that she's going to meet the guy as a friendly meeting (he's a good friend of her for a long time and they usually meet eachother) then she said that this guy told her yasterday that he wants her (or "loves her" i dont remember)
the fact that she mentioned that after she told me she is going to meet him ALONE, for the whole day, its was such an obvious test to see how ill react.. i reacted to this one as a shit-test too - didnt care really much...

there were a few other tests but i post these 2 just to show you what i mean...
my question is : how should i react when she'll give me more tests like that ? should i give it more attention ? act as im worried? or keep being apathetic to her tests ?



another problem is.. i dont show too much emotion, i mean, f.e when she went to another city to her father, she slept there for like 3 days, and while she was there we talked, and she said she really miss me, and then she said "you dont miss me.. :[" i actually didnt say that i miss her, dam its only been a day since i saw her (we talked the next day after she went to her father)
i also never said i love her, i dont compliment her too much, only saying small stuff like compliments with the word 'cute' (f.e. cute smile, cute nose..) but not things such as 'amazingly beautiful' or 'your so beautiful"

should i show more emotions ?

sorry for all the typos its 6:30 in the morning here i didnt sleep for 2 days and i typed it really fast cause i really wanna go to sleep now..

I think that you should be more emotional only if you really feel that way because girls go goo-goo eyed for that, and honestly if she's giving you the bs "test" and your in a relationship, I feel it really depends on how much you like the chick and how serious of a relationship do you want it to be. Like honestly dude I could see those "tests" if you weren't in a relationship, but you are and I dont think they're called for,but then again you guys are just starting, she may be testing your balls and the boundaries of the relationship
That's my take on it

i didnt say its shittest test, i said its a test but i reacted to it as a shittest
my question is HOW to react to? should i fall for the test? show that i really care if someone else hit on her or if she's going to meet a friend for the whole day just the two of them after he said he loves her or keep reacting to it as a shittest?