Hey guys,

Im 19 year old student. I never had success with girls in my life. I started reading pua material in december 2009. Soon after I started sarging, but with very few success. But Its also true, that I didnt do a lot of approches, because I have problems with AA.

I believe that confidence comes with success. At least with me, when I have any kind of success, I feel more confident imediatelly. So I will push myself out of my comfort zone and practice in field. And I wont stop until I become a PUA.And one day I will succed

I will be updating this thread daily and I look forward to your responses and advices.

I think you should wing with somebody to give you the boost. Try the mony game with him. You know...you give him some mony and for every approach he gives you back. Or do what I do...go out with two good friends (girls) and play spin the bottle and only take dares. That's what I did. And the girls will always say to go up to a girl and say some shitty girly pick-up line, or other random shit. You'll totaly loose your social value for that night. But no one will remember you. And you'll develop thick skin for AA, DHV, low social value etc. Then you build on your game once you get past this things.

@afc_gone

Hey mate, I actually have only one wingman, and I rarely sarge with him, we also dont live in the same city, but I should try this tactic . My friends that I go out with almost never approach women, so they cant be my wingmen


Field report, saturday 21.8.2010

I have to say that I didnt really use any method, I was just trying to push myself out of my comfort zone...

I was not at my home, I was Bratislava. While exploring the city, I did some day game. When I left the hostel I spoted a hb8 sitting on the floor ("sarging" in this situatuions is very easy, so I kinda dont count, but I just wanted to get warmed up a bit).

Me: So, are this your cats? (there were 2 cats near her)
hb8: No no, but they seem to like me (answers with a smile)
Me(actually started to walk away slowly): So, where you from?
Hb8: Im from Sweden, how bout u?
me: Im from Slovenia (I stopped walking away)

Then we had some basic chat, about our contries and Bratislava in general. She told me that she was leaving a minute, going to Poland. Soon after two of her friends came. I wished them a nice trip and said goodbye. I guess I should have at least facebook closed them, just to get some practice.

After, I asked around 10 sets about direction/location or opinion what should I visit next. But damn, I couldnt transition, I didnt have the balls. So usually they told me what I asked them, and I said thanks and left. I dissapointed with myself. I didnt want to get out of my comfort zone :/ .

When the night came, I went to a club.It was still pretty early and the club seems pretty empty.While deciding whether to enter, I spotted a hb7.

ME: Hi, do you think this club will be full today?
hb7: Yeah, I think so. I heard that today will be good.
Me: Well it seems pretty lonely right now.
hb7: Yeah, but later shoud get better.
Me: Well yesterday I was here and It was pretty good
Hb7: Yeah, I was here too.
ME(trying to be funny, but it was very lame):Didnt you see me?
hb7: No , there were a lot of people.
Me: hehe, you are right. Well thanks ( very lame)
hb7: ok , Im just gonna check out the place.

Later on, when I entered the club. I started talking to her again. In the beggining it went well, but I wasnt using really humor, didnt dhv, nothing :/ . After few minutes I said, if she isnt gonna ask me anything (she did ask questions before though), Ill leave. She kept quiet.Later on, I did few other approaches, but never reached the hook point, mostly got ignored.

This was pretty disapointed day. Mostly because I didnt push my selfenough. Tomorow I go out again and I will try to approach more.

Sounds like you are doing good, man. Just remember when you fail (and you will) don't let it get to you. Failing is good. Every time you fail you have a chance to learn and make improvements. Only through failure will you ever genuinely learn game.