Okay!! So the girl I'm with doesn't stop going through my phone. It drives me insane, and I got fed up, and I know I'm not alone. All the time "Who's Miranda?" and tons of others. I try to keep my phone private, but sometimes, you can't. So here's the solution.

If you have a crazy girl, you have to take some drastic measures.

So save all the girl's numbers you get as men's names. Make them easier to remember.

Example

If here name is Brittany, save it as Brian, or if her name is Jeanine, save it as Gene. Be creative it works! Your nosey girl is a lot less likely to go through your messages if only Brian and Gene have been texting you, and she's not going to suspect your contacts, especially since we PUA's tend to be social anyway, it's not like she'll ask.

-Jace

OR grow some balls n tell her to fuck off... DO NOT EVER... EVER EVER EVER... LET A WOMAN MANIPULATE YOU.... just my two cents

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+10 for simply slick.
Not a fuck any woman will scan my wallet, pockets, phone, databases without my green light.

Yes...control your woman! You gotta have lines! This is her shit test. You make it clear that you're being faithful, but that she has no right to go trough your phone in the first place. If she does not listen, disarm her! take her big gun-sex and use it to your advantage. Say no sex for week or two and be strong on that until she apologises. At leas that's what I would do.

Haha well duh, it's not like you let her when she asks . Gotta be slick guys. Your missing the point.

with all due respect, i cannot begin to comprehend such an approach. If my soon to be ex gf (soon because bitch is going through my phone) was doing this, I'd start saving dozens of new girls' numbers even if they didn't exist. And there would be a nice mix of stripper names and traditional girl names.

It is no matter of hiding real numbers between fakes and misled her.
It is matter of principles.
Even POLICE has to have serach warrant to go through yours belongings.
Are her rights above that ?
Based on what ?

My buddy's gf is going through the same issue (she goes through his txt msgs). She saw the one where I told him that she was trying to push him to see his limits to see what he'll put up with before she gets bored and dumps him (for the 5x time). She's a stripper with trust issues......she doesn't trust him but she expects him to trust her (go figure).

Kind of funny because he found out shortly before that she was in a photo shoot in which she spanked guys and never told my buddy (her bf) about it. Fucked up, huh?

I cant believe that you really let her check your phone.

I would NEVER! EVER! do that.

Not because I have stuff to hide but because it my stuff. She has no fucking business going through my stuff. Thats the way it works. If she cant accept that, then fuck her, she can go find some other loser. You go for the next.

Her: Can I check your phone?
YOU: NO, why would I let you check my phone, its mine.
Her: I wanna see what youre up to.
YOU: You cant, deal with it.
Her: Then I break up.
YOU: Then thats probably for the best.

Grow som balls man.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Aw no, an alpha-male does NOT allow a woman in his personal space. Seeing as how your woman isn't a dominant one (I can tell from her open insecurity), the scene isn't bad for you and you can quickly learn and change things.

P.s: If she gets really insecure and starts to feel neglected, you can pump some reassurance into her and throw in stuff like

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> "Her: Can I check your phone? "

It is not happening this way. Woman checks your phone when you are under shower or wherever else.

Simply_Slick , Very well said. Don't ever let a girl be like this, It doesn't matter whether she asks or not, the first time you notice her going through your phone, or anything else personal, lay down the law and tell her straight that she is never ever to do that again. you cannot let women manipulate you. don't fly totally of the handle, just be firm with her and tell her she is not to do that, say if she can't trust you then it's over, cause you can trust her, and this difference in opinions will likely bring an end to the relationship at some point. She has to respect your privacy, you shouldn't need to save girls numbers as guys because she shouldn't be looking, and even if she did, why can't she trust you when you tell her they're your friends? Be the alpha male in this situation, do not try and trick your girl by changing the names.

Pyro, Peace x

Simply_Slick , Very well said. Don't ever let a girl be like this, It doesn't matter whether she asks or not, the first time you notice her going through your phone, or anything else personal, lay down the law and tell her straight that she is never ever to do that again. you cannot let women manipulate you. don't fly totally of the handle, just be firm with her and tell her she is not to do that, say if she can't trust you then it's over, cause you can trust her, and this difference in opinions will likely bring an end to the relationship at some point. She has to respect your privacy, you shouldn't need to save girls numbers as guys because she shouldn't be looking, and even if she did, why can't she trust you when you tell her they're your friends? Be the alpha male in this situation, do not try and trick your girl by changing the names.

Pyro, Peace x

No this is just machoguy wannabe mumbo jumbo. Of course you let a woman into your personal space. But both of you have the right to some privacy.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I guess we just define "personal space" in different ways.
Checking your phone too often is intrusion into your personal space, if you allow it unless you've been with that woman for a very long time, you're heading for problems like the OP headed for.

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