ok so i said to a girl at work - (this has been field tested many times before, and it works well) :

When they do something wrong or stupid say :- "You know, fiirst impressions count!! but just because im feeling generous ill give you a second chance!!"

This needs to be done C&F with a cheeky grin, usually they lauugh and do the old punch on the arm or something but this one girl yesterday said .. "Well, if you dont want to be friends with me then thats fine, i dont care"

Howd you deal with his??

PS.- I was shocked, although i did manage to turn it round later, she is a HB9.5m i went up to her from behind and whispered in her ear - "I dont know if anyones ever told you this before, but..." I took a few steps back and said when she looked up at me "... you look like an overgrown oompa-loompa" (she wears fake tan, and i neeged her on it earlier slightly and she laughed); i then jjust walked off

BUMP

Simple, keep turning it around on her. You could have said, "I've had my fill of oompa loompa friends", "Who said I wanted to be friends?", etc.

Sounds to me like it was a shit test, just keep pushing through it. Don't let it faze you. Remember, let her know it's a privilege to be friends with YOU.