stucked in the "Im gay" opening



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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:42 pm 
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hey PUA community, I just got in to the game a week ago, I've been reading books, articles an lot of stuff in the forum, and I've been practicing in the field all nights. yesterday It just happends that I went over a set of two HB (9 and 8), they where on the birthady of the HB9, there where some other ladies and 2 AFC guys who where hanging out with the HBs. so I went there and opened myself with "If I weren't gay, you'd be so mine" to the HB9, and It totally worked, after some chat, I was dancing with both HBs and the AFC where just coming around with us for a while, but their conversation wasn't as interesting so the leave very soon.

after a while, I performed some EPS tests, guesig numbers and reading they palms, the HB9 showed her hand, and I saw their hand lines where so marked, so I took te chance to neg asking if her lines were very marked or they where just too dirty.
HB9 laughted and HB8 LOL laughted.

at the end I made some kino, built rapport and bot both girls phones, I just couldn't get to kiss-close and we decided to hang out the 3 in the week for some beer.

now, the problem here was:

today I woke up, (I added the girls to facebook) and the HB9 was online, so we talked a little she showed me an IOI and then when she was just leaving,
I tought it was the moment to tell her I wasnt gay. why?
I thought telling here just right in the moment she just left, would allow me two things:
first, she would be thinking probablly in all things we did an said, and the fact of why I did and said those things, and of course, why the hell I lied to her and told her I was gay.
second, now she would be more interested on going out with me just to know the answers.

worked well, except for one reason:
just when I told her Im not gay, she said "ooh, then you're a liar :P"
and I said, "no im not, thats why Im telling you the truth, cause thats the only lie I ever told you".
(tought was going well but) then she said this:
"mmm, well to bad, what ever... gotta go, we will talk latter, byeee"

and now the question:
what should I do now, to keep all the rapport and work done till now with both girls, cause know they know Im'n not gay, they'll probably stop being to open, and not trust that much onto me.

so PUA masters, what's next :S? what should I said in our date? thx.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:56 pm 
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I hate that opener. Unless you're phenomenal at recovery, it most likely won't work. It comes across as very sleazy and gimmicky. I dunno if you'll be able to fix this one, man.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 9:01 pm 
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Aww, man. This is the reason I have for NEVER use this opener.

I think that "Oh, then you're a liar!" from HB9 was a Shit Test. Okay.

1. You should have talked her that wasn't gay face to face. I personally love MSN/Orkut/Facebook games, buuuuut, you can't have a KC by computer's screen. Following this, you could have used a Cocky and Funny strategy, such as...

"Hell yeah, I'm a liar! But, come on, THAT was the most creative way I've found to start a conversation with you. I bet that NO ONE made this before."

Then, you'd be in a better way to continue the game.

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Okay, now, the rapport. Personally, I suggest you to use a routine to develop a connection, such as question games, role-playing games, etc. Then, use this connection to have a Day 2, IOIs, KC, FC, etc.

That's all!

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 9:11 pm 
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@RWies

I also thougt It was a Shit Test, And indeed now you said it, I should have told her in person, face to face.

The cocky and Funny tip is a good Idea man! thx. I'll give it a shot and post what happened.


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