So I have been seeing this girl who has a bf for some time. It’s been a very complicated situation. Basically she is unhappy in her relationship but hasn’t broke up with her bf for various reasons. I have spent many nights with her but have met a tonne of resistance when it comes to sex, but I was finally able to break through just recently.

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Some things of interest to note that I thought might have been the difference on this night to the other night are as follows.

1) I hadn’t allowed her to see me for 2 weeks and she was missing me a lot.
2) I had wrote her a letter basically telling her how crap it is of her to be treating her bf the way she is, but also telling her I have feelings and want to be with her. I think this could have been a big reason why she had sex with me. I think she needed to know this before she would have sex.
3) She asked me if I could love her and needed re-enforcement in the immediate moments prior to her taking her pants off.
4) I had her favourite album playing in the background. I think this helped put her in the right emotional state.

I did not take any of these steps to get her naked. I was not even expecting or really trying for sex. It just sort of happened and it made me wonder why she was willing to on this night compared to other nights. These are the reasons I came up with.