Ok, so my understanding of busting the LMR goes as follows:

You two are isolated/alone. You and her are already kissing, making out, w/e! Now when you go to unbutton her pants or unbutton yours she shuts you down. Here's where the LMR / Anti-Slut defense comes into play. So to combat her giving you blue balls, you passively ignore her and check your e-mail, make a phone call, or just do something else. Now again, I could be wrong about these methods, in which case I would love some correction, but I tried the two I mentioned, and the results were not well.

Phone call - I still got to make out with this girl, but I couldn't get her clothes off. A bit lame.

E-mail - She told me I was acting like a baby because I didn't get my way and resulted in her leaving soon after. She still texts me religiously

In conclusion:
Is it me or does LMR seem exactly like a small child not getting their way, so they pout. If a girl were to do this to me (obviously i AM a slut and am not worried about Anti-Slut defense ) I would think of her a lot less because she was POUTING. So here's the question; Is my understand of LMR correct and are there other ways you know (field-tested) that work?


Thank you in advance.

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-dw3llz

i agree with you, i've never had any success freezing out like that.
when i would do it to my ex she would always tell me i was having a temper tantrum even though i wasnt really saying anything to her. all it really accomplished was making her mad that i wasnt content with just being with her and if she wasnt in the mood before she sure as hell wasnt after that.

HOWEVER i watched a youtube video of mystery talking about LMR. he acts differently and says "that's ok baby, you just have to understand you highjacked my brain. all im going to be able to think about tomorrow is you... and on and on." i havent had an opportunity to try this out yet but it definitely seems better than freezing out.

i guess a good mix of the two might be having the goals of letting her know youll be there tomorrow and the next day (so she doesnt feel like a slut) and at the same time coming off indifferent about sex so she feels like she needs to put out to get your attention (since your such a great guy and told her that she 'highjacked your brain'"

apologies. i didnt really organize my thoughts while i typed that but hopefully you got the idea.

what do you think? and i could probably find that video for you if you want.