aright first let me say that the girl i am about to talk about has a boyfriend and a kid with the boyfriend and lives with the boyfriend.

About a half a year ago this guy was treating her like shit. never took her out. cheated on her. had fun and left her with their son doing nothing. JUST ALL BAD. Her and i had crushes on eachother in highschool and now that she was going thru a bad time i was there for her. her boy didnt like me obviously so we always met up and talked to eachother secretly, constantly. everything was great and things were building up. i hadnt kissed her yet because she really respected her relationship and felt bad if she did. anyways one day she deletes her facebook and we loose connection because she didnt call me and i was to stupid and cocky to call her. i wanted her to come after me. so after not talking for a couple weeks i left the country for 7 months and now came back and got in contact with her again. but things are different. she doesnt call me or text me like she used to. she looks a bit happier with her life now and im guessing she only wants me as a friend, but still she is willing to see me secretly and hug me for like 5 minutes. BIG IOI'S.

How do i find out if she still feels something for me? how do i get her attention again? or should i let her be and move on....?????

ok. listen. there are several ways for you to seduce her but i believe you shouldnt.
if you really care about this girl then dont try anything. just be her friend.
if you see she is still as lonely and sad as she used to be, then you can start thinking about using some game on her. for now, i think you sould move on.

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Veni, vidi, vici

Move on.

Save your sanity while you're still young.

Separate emotion from common sense.

Women come in to your life and then leave just quickly.

Appreciate that time but always know that more women are out there to give you better memories.

Be brave.