Story is this.

Two years ago I met a new work colleague and we were attracted to each other all most immediately. Our relationship deepened to the point, that we have quite deep connection and we really liked to spent time together. We had some great fun at firm parties and several time we almost F closed, but due to the fact that we are working together, we didn´t do it until half an year ago and after that sex has been just great. Totally mind blowing almost every time we have made it. I know my work colleague is totally attracted to me as I am to her. I can maker her wet in a two minutes just by talking, so attraction is not over. We are not looking for relationship, because we are both single parents, and for that relationship at the moment dosent fit.

But here lies the problem. She is extremely emotional and sexually active and have a usually high self esteem even she is a little bit shy to strangers, but when you get to know her, she is just perfect. During our last year she has a few times mentioned that she is afraid that I will someday break her or asking how long this great feeling can last and also she had wondered that nothing last forever.

I am a little bit confused. Is she trying to break up or is she trying get some confirmation from me how I feel about her or is she telling me that I should start thinking again that relationship thing? She has not told me that she loves me, except in a way that "You are making me crazy" or "I had a dream about you, we were having great time", and that sort of thing.

Any comment what is going on?

Sounds like she's fishing for a commitment. Looks like you're gonna have a choice to make. I wouldn't procrastinate either. Women tend go ape-shit crazy if they're held in this waiting pattern too long.

It seems so. Thanks. Well, this makes things much more complicated. I want it, but timing is crucial, I think. After very romantic moment, but the thing is what to say? I mean, In a way, that I am not needy or pushing. What to say, that she will bring up the subject so that she feels, that she will not be rejected?

You say you're both single parents. Can I assume you were married or at least deeply involved with the mother? If so you can find an intimate moment and genuinely thank her for helping you forget and move past you ex. I've never met a woman who didn't just melt over being told that she's made your life better. Plus, if I read you right, this should be gods honest truth.