FR#1 Clubbing 14/8/10 - Learning from your mistakes



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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 4:53 am 
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Well tonight I was going out solo which I have never done before but I was going to meet my friends later at a club.

Start of the night I went to a club that my friend worked at (only cause he gets me free drinks :D ). So it took me about 10min to start approaching I had a bit of AA and I overcame this by going to the toilet and remembering that I should not be scared of approaching because all I am doing it talking to another human being! So I approached 4 sets in which only 1 was giving me IOI's. I use mostly natural openers and speaking because canned openers are too forced.

Set giving IOI's 3 girls HB6, HB5, HB7 (in bathroom)
Girl at bar with 3 drinks plus a shot

Now these convos arent exact but I will give you the idea

Me: Hey don't you think ordering one drink at a time is enough?
HB6: Haha they are for my friends as well! She is just in the bathroom
Me: Im sure (smiling), You keep looking over there but noones there!

Convo continued for another minute I had introduced myself to both girls by this point. HB7 arrives and HB6 tells her what I had been talking about.

Me: Oh so you do actually have a friend!
HB7: Yes i am real lol
I introduce, then some kino and then right in front of me she does a shot and skulls a glass of wine i was like :O. I know she definitely wanted it should have fucked the drink and gone with them.

Also I encountered some girls that I should have prob used negative attraction because these girls were miserable. HB3fat, HB8.5 Both sitting down not talking at all.

I was at this club for only an hour then headed to the club my friends were at. I approached probably 5 sets here and got 3 girls giving IOI's.

First was a HB9.5 from work which I got kiss rejection I can't figure this girl out. She was giving alot of kino but pulled out of the kiss once we connected lips. At this point I said "Thats the worst hookup ive ever had" She laughs then tells her friend (Set was me HB9.5, her friend HB10, and a Guy I wont rate him). At this point I ejected saying il back in two secs.

2nd girl I found on the dfloor HB8 wen i walked past i looked back and we were both smiling at each other I was heading to the toilet and approached her wen I got back.

This girl had this AFC and HB3 trying to dance with her i befriended him then went for her. This one I should not have ejected but I couldn't think of a way to isolate at the time without buying her a drink and I had no money lol. What I thought was funny thou was wen i asked the guy are you seeing each other? He was like no man and I could tell he was trying but then said dude just go for it lol. So he gave up wen i was there.

Last girl HB8.5 I met through a friend and my mistake here I think was giving her a neg when we were close to hooking up. I said "Do you think your gonna kiss me". Definitely a bad time to say it (I said it because she was a tease). All in all I had a good night, great music, and I hope you guys will not make the same mistakes I did.


Lessons Learnt:

Club 1
1. Early in the night girls are still sober and are usually less interested
2. Should have isolated the girl giving me IOI's (3set at the bar) But I was too busy ordering.
3. When I'm solo approaching sarging girls on dfloor i find it difficult if I am still sober because can't fallback on friends.

Club 2
1. HB9 from work I shud have gone for k-close earlier she seemed less interested as night went on. (I ejected at the right time though)
2. If a girl is giving you IOI's but is naturally shy don't eject try to isolate (this was my biggest regret she wanted it soo bad)
3. If you are low on cash use other ways to isolate then saying come get a drink with me.
4. Once shes interested and you can get her close on dfloor DONT NEG use kino
5. If a girl is smiling and enjoying the company don't stop talking to her because she isn't asking YOU questions.
6. Natural openers definitely work the best and fit your own body language

My smoothest opener I used last night was right at the end of the night I was sitting with my friends in a booth and two HBs next to me one waving paper in front of her face to because it was hot. All I did was grab her arm and start cooling myself down.


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