1. Last year I hung out with particularly unpopular people, and I say unpopular because it appears that they are very disliked by the majority of the student body.

2. I also made a terrible speech with one of these people in front of my entire grade and screwed up considerably.

3. At one point there were rumors circling that I was gay! It was probably due to this 'awkward' stage I was going through.

4. And I'm afraid I've lost this girl who had a crush on me, because I sent her a message but she didn't reply..and we sort of grew apart in the last two years or so.


As you can see I have created quite a negative reputation for myself, I believe. I always feel confident on my own and with people outside of school, kind of, but whenever I see people from my school on Facebook I get this terrible feeling within me, it's this gross feeling I can't really describe, that seems to suck confidence from me.

How do I change this? Do I go back a different person? How do I change my reputation? Ahhhhhhhh!!

You want to change your reputation! Join a sport (running makes you feel good doesn't matter how slow you are) and be a leader! Do the best in the sport you join in and motivate people! Talk to everyone. Set your self apart foo! Use situational openers to talk to girls and guys in high school. The more guys you know the more people you will know. Catch people with your web spidey! Get great grades this helps so much! Walk in school like you don't give a FUCK and say hi to everyone you know and don't know. Even when they don't reply back with a hi it feels like an accomplishment. Let me know how it goes and keep me updated!

P.S. What grade are you in and in which state are you?

Well I haven't joined a sport, but I have excellent grades. I'm going to grade 11.

Wow this has 42 views and only I have replied! Fucked up shit!!!

Well make sure you join a sport you like and know you will enjoy. Another thing is make sure the sport you join doesn't mess with your grades! Grades before hoes hahah xD

Make sure you make a big change on your personality before you get into school again. Practice your eye contact with guys and girls. Talk louder than usual and soon you will get used to that and won't be known as a loser! If you get bully don't put up with that shit. Make them your friends before they keep ruining your reputation! Or just ignore them. I went through this stage this year and all the things I'm telling you have worked! I am now way more outgoing than I used to be. Not to say my confidence as grown so much! I don't give that much of a shit anymore. I unbutton my dressing shirts all the way to my chest even though I don't have to have muscle.

The way you feel about yourself is what matters! When you don't give a fuck about what people think thats when you attract people! If you have problems with dressing just copy the style of the guy that gets chicks in school with a little twist to make it your style!

The one thing that really helped is saying [hey, hi, hello, hey hows it going, hey whats up, hey there haven't see you in a long time] when I was alone and walking on my way to whichever place. Say them every time your alone and then say them to your friends when you see them and over time you will be able to say this as if it were an instinct or something!

Any questions PM me or keep putting it here.

Change now before you regret it when you get into senior year!

Sometimes your gonna feel uncomfortable just remember you GROW and get STRONGER every time you feel uncomfortable!!!

So you're in high school?

1. You claim that it is best that I alter my personality. To what degree do you suggest I do this, and how?
2. How did you do it?
3. And I would like to ask you one more question, if you will: if you have already done so or have begun to do so, how does one conform to the mannerisms of the popular iconic male presented in the media? I mean, that cool guy who has retained his masculinity in such a way that it...blehhh you must know what I mean.

Haha yeah I am going through the a different process right now.

1. Do it until your happy with who you are! Everyone that learns about PUA and puts effort in this pick up the alpha traits takes time but you can be anyone you want to! You can be sociable, funny, and cool you just have to study those people and see what makes them that way! Join clubs that you like or just try some out so you can go out your comfort zone! I did this and it works! Even if you don't stay just go for the eff of it. Join a sport too. Something your passionate about. Write down everything you love and love doing and study them more deeply so you can talk abou it with people and they get drowned by it. This is super effective! This is the reason you should study everything girls like: shopping, fashion, tv shows, celebreties, and school related stuff, so you can connect with them and have a solid friendship and from there you can move on to anything if you get good at game!

2. I did and am exactly doing what I said up there^ . It has helped me so thats why I'm letting you know! If someone ignores you when you talk to them just remember that the feeling you'll get from this will make you grow stronger (and this is soooo true) !

3. I have no idea what you meant to say lol but all i can say is never be rude. To anyone! You goal should be to outgoing and bring into your world everyone except if their been little bitches you know? You will find out that as you become popular you will drag even guys into you life because they figure your cool and you can be the key for them to get a girl you get me?

Just list the top things that you like and the top things that girls like and find out about it! Find the most recent stuff, where to shop, what movies are coming out, what theaters are awesome, which celebrity is hot and shit like that. Girls like when they can discuss this shit with you but only do so if you just want to be friend or else it will be awkward!

Anyway ask me any thing else or PM if you get stuck or need motivation. I will try to help you from the extend of what i have done and know.

On a sidenote-

ElitePUA- "Grades before hoes"

At your age, this is true. If you can get a sweet scholarship, go to a nice college. You're going to have some fun.

i had this a lot, i was a very quiet kid and always just got on with school.
But i changed this, and id say i became 'popular', this is how i did it.
I NEVER stayed in the area where everyone else hanged about with friends and such, i met new people literally every day and got around. This lead me to having a lot of friends on Facebook and i became more popular around the school just because i knew everyone outside of school. Doing this also built up my confidence greatly and i was never quiet again, in fact, i wouldn't say im quiet at all anymore.
When i did go out with mates then to different areas that ive already been to yet, they haven't, id get recognised a lot more than they did and then everyone from my school would want to hang around with me so i'd look even more popular. Although never just forget your old friends just because you start to 'get around more', always know who your true friends are
But one thing you don't want to do put your grades before girls, this is the worst thing you can do
hope i helped