Most men put women on a high pedastal. This is where Social Anxiety and Social Shyness comes into play. I use to have this but no longer have this. I can talk to a woman about whatever and still be about myself. Most experienced PUA's on this forum will know where I'm coming from.

This technique will increase your confidence and will make your feel more comfortable talking with women. When you feel anxious and talk with women, the women feel anxious too and then retreat. When you feel relaxed and confident, they feel comfortable around you.

Ever notice the most popular guys get most of the women? Why is that? They're so comfortable with themselves and around women that they don't need to be anyone else but themselves - thus making women and people around them comfortable.

Try saying this affirmation to yourself over and over again until you start feeling and believing this new belief.

"Women are nothing special - they're just humans like us men."

Once this sticks in your mind you will soon realize a change, and I mean a drastic change. Go up to any type of a girl and start talking. You'll start to feel more comfortable and start feeling more confident being able to talk to them with out feeling anxious or nervous.

So how does it work really? Well it works by telling yourself that women are women and that's it. Women aren't goddesses and women won't strike you dead if you say something horribly wrong. They're just people with flaws and mistakes. Remember they're just people too!

You'll start to know whether or not they're feeling comfortable around you when they start engaging in conversation. This doesn't mean they like you. If a girl is engaging into the conversation, it doesn't necessary mean she's into you just enjoys the conversation. Now, if she's flirting with you and other signs then yes this means she likes you. However, if she's just casual talking then it just mean she enjoy talking with you.

Also, it may to say this as well:

"I don't care about whether women like me or not - I'm still a great guy and there will be plenty of other women that will like me." This will increase your confidence level and plus making it easier for you to get back on your feet when you get rejected.

Just remember, if one girl rejects you then there will be a dozen more that will be glad to date you.

Any questions or comments post below. Thanks for reading.

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Excellent post!

I will try holding this affirmation in my mind tonight as approaching is my biggest sticking point!!

sure might work for many people but dont mistreat it as something fundamental. obviously you have to see women as something else or "more" than normal members of your own species in order for the realization that they are just the female version of yourself to benefit you so much. if you frequently think "wait a second, theyre just people" and that boosts your confidence like nothing else then this is the most important lesson to learn for you, currently. but things change and once youre over your irritated perception of women there come new obstacles - presenting this "affirmation" like its the cure for aids could lead others and most of all you yourself to difficulties in moving on. because whenever you feel like shit in the field you will try thinking about how women are just women and at some point it WILL NOT WORK, it will not improve your state anymore because your view on women will no longer be the main reason for your insecurities.

TLDR: try it, use it if it works, but dont overestimate its importance!

Thanks for the input Male Member. Also, to keep in mind men and women are no different just different sex organs and think differently. Men's thinking pattern has been proven to be different from women where as women uses front to back and left and right of their brain whereas men uses back to front. Women process information carefully and aren't too impulsive like us men. When they go shopping for instance, they look at each item before they decide to buy. Us men, we look at the item and we instantly want to buy. This data processing also goes with dating as well.

So, there different mentally and organ wise but they still feel, think, breath, have desires just like us men.

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