she lives near my neighborhood, last night i took a look around on facebook to see who have facebook profiles in my neighborhood. and i recognized this girl, i saw once when i was on my somewhere.
i saw that her status is set on: looking for dating and A Relationship.
she looks kind of a shy girl too, i saw her picture and shes no party animal.

help me out, i really wanna ask her out and i dont wanna scare her away. xD
btw the poking routine wont work cuz she took off the poke app so i got to send her a message, what should i write?

Hey man,

Personally I've had a lot of luck on the whole 'online sarging' thing, and the best routine i've found is the simple and friendly approach, It's hard to convey certain techniques just through text so it's better to stick to the basics!

Do you have any mutual friends? because what I would usually do is add her, then drop her a message or Facebook chat saying something like..

'Hey, hope you don't mind me adding you! I noticed we have a few mutual friends and I really recognise you, do you live around **?'

or

'Hey, you came up in my 'mutual friends' section on Facebook so I added you, Hows it going?'

This way you don't come off as a creep or anything, and you can just get into casual conversation and build it up!

I've met up with about 20 girls through Facebook using this method alone, so it can work!

Good luck man, keep me updated on the progress!

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thx man, really good advice!

she answered back , she said " yeah ill add you np , and yepp i live around your neighborhood;)"

any idea what to say next xD.
i know, i sound so afc but i have no skills in online sarging :/

all right! ill do this by my own, tee hee

If you want to break your AFC ways and are new to this, simply don't treat girls like you are trying to become friends. When you try to make friends you may be super hospitable and act polite and all of that. Basically a guy becomes a Ken doll. I'm not saying to be a jerk. But I feel it's very important to let the girl know that you find her attractive. By doing so, it implies an interest. It lets her react if she is attracted as well. In essence, it is making a move. By doing this early on it puts you in the "maybe date' category instead of 'maybe friend' category. Ever since I started using this stuff, that seems to be the most important thing you can do. When it comes to complimenting her looks, don't call her hot. Also, don't go overboard. If you go too far with it all then you will look like you are kissing up. You want to be slightly more than matter of fact about it. Yes there could be something mysterious if you never say if you are attracted. I think by doing that, more often than not, you increase the odds of being thought only of as a friend. I think saying it shows a bit of that take charge side women like and opens doors that otherwise wouldn't open. All of this takes time. But it starts to make sense. Also, use advice to bring out your personality. You only need to adjust like 10 to maybe 20 percent of your personality if that to be successful. If you try to be something you totally aren't it will show or worse yet, you'll have a hard time keeping up appearances. You just want to be the best you that you can be.