A few weeks ago, I was talking with my girlfriend on the car, and a conversation about some mutual friends of ours struck up.
We talked about how she was in love with him but he just wanted to have sex with her... blah blah.
Well the point is that she told me the conversations she's had with this guy (through MSN) ...like.. well, he told her he doesn't likes to use condom, and everytime he goes out, he has sex with his friends but he comes outside, because he doesn't like to use condom.
Anyways, I was like "So you talk all that with a friend?" and she was just "Yeah ...." .... I pretended to be more shocked about the fact that this guy doesn't like to use condom and has sex with his friends every night they go out.
But I was actually kind of bothered by the fact that she speaks like so "intimately" about that stuff with a friend.
Then I came to the realization that I might be selfish, being that I also talk like that with some of my girlfriends, they tell me how they have sex with their boyfriend, where and how, and what do they like...
So it bothered me at the moment but then it didn't. Even though I try not to go sexual talk with my friends.
Would you be bothered by this?

I don't think it matters if we are bothered if that happened to us or not. The only thing that matters is that you were. You're doing it too, so it shouldn't matter, don't be a hypocrite;however, if you stop because she is doing it, then subtly bring it up that you do the same thing, or let her "catch" you, if she freaks out or whatever, then you can be like I'll stop if you stop.

Nothing like that bothers me.

Sure, it's nice to respect the fact that it personally bothers you - but it doesn't bother her, so that's always going to be a problem that she's more open than you.

I'm a bit confused about the start of the post - she WAS in love with him? or IS?

She IS ... but not my girlfriend... Another girl, and a guy ... my girlfriend was talking to the guy about the 3rd girl, who is in love with the guy. And he tells her (my girlfriend) all those things, that when he has sex he comes outside, and he doesn't like condoms blah blah.

I guess, its really .. not that much, its not like they share videos or pictures about the spoken acts...
its just msn chat..

Oh ok. Well I wouldn't worry about that.