hi i posted something like this before but deleted it cause i want this to be more detailed and long

I'm shy 17 asian, a virgin, only made out once, and feel somewhat depressed i dont have that many REAL friends that i can trust and want to hang out with outside of school because they do drugs and all that stuff i dont want to be involved in. like i said i'm asian, filipino to be exact, and i know some people will say "race doesnt matter when PU" but the high school i go to is made up of hispanics and blacks, and the kids there beleive in the sterotypes and make ignorant asian jokes (not directly at me) just out of no where in class, this affects me because no girl really wants to talk to me because of this. i used to dance like the other asians at school but stopped cause i found it boring and realized i just did it in order to fit in and get invited to parties. never got invited to a party...

i have a good friend that doesnt know anything of pua, but he is a natural cause of his looks and cofidence... i stopped hanging out with for awhile cause everytime im with him , groups of girls and sometimes guys would always be on his dick pay attention to anything dumb he says while i just stand in the sideline daydreaming i was like him. I WANT TO BE A LEADER not a damn follower so i stopped hanging out with him for now until i master game.

the first girl i made out with was last year. i thought she was a hb8, but now i think of her as a FUG. my first date with her was going to the movies(bad idea i know now) i asked her if she wanted to be my gf, she said yes and from there i had my first makeout session. she dumped me the following week cause she said no chemestry. found out from a realible soruce she really dumped me cause i was weird that i didnt have a gf before and wanted to make out all the time. WTF
of course i wanted to make out all the time it was new to me! i liked the feeling! blame horomones not me! anyways months later i realized she was really damn ugly. i know now she wasnt really a REAL GF and i was afc in our text messages and taking her out to the movies. and asking her to be my gf on the first date AND! saying i love you the first date!

i was really depressed for sometime and decided to search "how to get over girl"
i found a fourm and some guy said read " the game" i didnt read it but i found out about game through youtube vids, mystery methods.

i'm doing the style life challenge right now, on day 4. still have AA!
tryna be ready for school where i can use game in varsity football games where alot of girls and people my age in genral hang out at night.
my wish is to become a smooth confident guy with good game. the goal for me is not to get a gf right now cause im still very young . i just want to have fun and have alot of friends girls and guys who i can builed comfort with. ill try to go out on dates with lots of women but not hook up, just makeout and be player etc. which is the main goal. glad i found out about PUA this young, its a sign from god. ill be posting my field reports whenever i can.


-B.B
ps, AA sucks

Hi
I can relate you. When I was in high school I didn't have friends I was the nerdy kid that was too shy to talk.
I went through college being the same shy kid only difference is that I met some people and became friends but still didn't get invited to parties.

Now that I'm out I really want to change. I also started rules of the game but I have been stuck on day 6?? I think. The one with giving 4 compliments.
I feel weird doing that.

You don't live in San Diego do you?
If you do we should help each other out.

how old are you?

im going to skip day 5 which is grooming cause i already feel well groomed. im not a no sense of fashion AFC so ill try to do day 6 tomorrow. i know what you mean, especially if your me cause where i live i cant really find that many girls my age walking around. its kinda weird for a teen to walk up to lets say a women in there thirtys and complimenting them. PLUS i dont have a car! so i just walk to the little mall near my house every day to see whats there everyday.

uhm, i sometimes visit san diego national city when im on vaction like spring or summer break cause family there.

I can pretty much relate to this, my friend got so many friends, it's impossible to talk with him.
Just read some alpha males books- like the one that carlos xuma wrote.

Hey B.B.

I can totally relate to what all you guys are saying. Because I've been there Listen, just keep on working towards your goals. I know a lot of ASIAN NATURALS out there who have helped me and I would suggest for you to surround yourself with these guys..

Mark

Go Asians! haha

Hi There,

To be honest, I am no PUA myself. In fact, I am still learning stuff. I got to learn about the game when I was in mid 20s. I don't know, whether, you will agree with me or not, but, after reading so many books on dating, it looks like majority of guys ignore the inner game completely. That's why I like Style more than mystery method. One thing, you must remember, what Arnold said and even quoted by Style "If you want to be a champion, you have to go through the pain period.....". You know what I mean. If you want to date beautiful girls, i would suggest, go through stylelife challenge, no matter what. If you put your heart and soul into something, no one can stop you from becoming the person you wanted to be!! Only thing is you have to want it badly enough

All the best.

whats the style life challenge?

is a book written by neil strauss that gives you daily challenges you must complete to becoming a pua