Ok here goes

I met this girl from my childhood, at the gym she looked ok, anyway that day she was feeling me and over the next coupe of visits to the gym she paid me these compliments,

you have nice legs

you look great on the treadmill

if you sorted out you posture you could have any girl you want.

Anyway I didn't really like her at the time and we were laughing and joking and having a great time and we went outside and we started talking she told me about her ex boyfriend and how he left her a year ago and other stuff, I told her about my ex and how I had left her because I felt she wasn't good enough for me.
Anyway at the end she went for a hug and me being a fucking homosexual I turned away and said I gotta go. She wanted a kiss and I completely fucked it up anyway I saw her more and more and was acting strong telling about all the other girls I see and she told me to come over to the cross trainer I had already finished training

Me: I can read ppl really easily

her: ok read me.

me: 'silence'

her: do you think I am pretty

me: yeh you seen nice (I know I am a homo)

her: she get angry and says you can go if you want

me: I see you later


Anyway I decide to send her a text saying

"What I meant to say is I think you are really pretty, any guy who ends up with you will be very lucky"

She responds with ahhhhhh etc etc
say thanks friend

Anyway after that I decide to get horny and start talking about her fixation with my legs, because she is always talking about them and she replies with ohh shuttupp lol

Anyway I see her the next day and everything is cool and we just act like friends and I help her training and nothing is mentioned

I decide to fuck her off as I am a very good looking dude and if she wants to be friends then she can go fuck herself. Anyway I haven't been to the gym for a week and I can't stop thinking about her lol, she contacted me on 8 days later saying

Hey homiee whats happening didn't see you in the gym : ( how your training going etc etc

I told her I was busy with interviews and that was my priority at the moment

she replied saying she would be in the gym on tuesday 2 days later.

Anyway I didn't respond and I haven't been to the gym.

Have I just been thrown in the friendzone for being a homo dick is there anyway out or does she fancy me I am so fucking confused at the same time I dont want to fuck up our friendship.

Please help guys.


Alatheia00

Your still in the game mate, just stop being so nervous about life and let it happen. A very key attitude I used is "Fuck it, lets do it." If I haven't done something once, lets give it a shot. You need to allow yourself to interact with this girl while on the basis that she is into you (which she is!). Make plans to go to the gym with her and GO! make a date with her! Do something to ensure that you keep her on the hook before you reel her in.

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-dw3llz

You are right i just keep thinking why call me homieee not only do we not speak like that is she telling me she just wants to be my friend and enjoys my company which I know she does or does she think I am just out for a fuck, this is how I have presented myself. Either way I am just looking for some quick sex and if she doesn't respond then I will definet;y take your advice

Thanks for replying

Alatheia00

You are right i just keep thinking why call me homieee not only do we not speak like that is she telling me she just wants to be my friend and enjoys my company which I know she does or does she think I am just out for a fuck, this is how I have presented myself. Either way I am just looking for some quick sex and if she doesn't respond then I will definet;y take your advice

Thanks for replying

Alatheia00

Unless she says, "Your my best friend" or "Your like a brother to me", your not dead in the friendzone yet.

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-dw3llz

Thanks man you are right I dont have anything to lose.

Do you think this whole PUA is based on previous experiences?, because when I started out I said all the wrong things, was clingy, supplicating all of that but now I know nice guys don't get shit. But its hard not to be nice when thats how you have been brought up to behave, its almost against your natural instinct.

I mainly do the whole cocky funny routine as I think my strength is my humour, but then sometimes I think women just view me as an entertainer and not someone they can take seriously.

I am reading this amazing book by Robert Greene - The Art of Seduction
This is hands down the best seduction book out there, check the reviews on amazon.
This dude has got the whole process down to a tee, very similiar to Neil Strauss, with his AFC', HB etc.

Thanks for replying

Peace

Alatheia00