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Hey guys, this is my first post and I've decided to write about opening. Most guys I know suck at this. Even the naturals at college, unless the situation is set up in a way that naturally leads to opening, are very hesitant at actually selecting a target and approaching. And let's face the fact that more emotion of inhibition is triggered at this phase of the game than at any other. I would say kino escalation is the worst, after opening.
So, how do we open and be successful 100 percent of the times? It's simple...
Most guys try to memorize complex routines, and come in strong into a set, trying to get emotionally charged and up and on the go. They make it into a complex activity, and it's really not that complex.
Today I went to the mall with a friend whose a total AFC, and opened 7 girls. 3 of them I number closed, within a period of about 45 minutes.
One of the chicks I number closed, I simply started by stopping and going, Hey do you know any good places to eat around here. Cuz, i am not from here I am just visiting a friend...
She started talking to me about all the different places, what's good there, etc. At this point, i adjusted my physiology as she smoke, and took a very comfortable stance. This locked us into a convo. Then I transitioned by saying, so i am assuming you live around here, what do you do for fun? and she started laughing and we started talking about that. I noticed she was holding the book Eclipse in her hand, and i interrupted what she was saying and i said, oh you're reading eclipise, whats up with that you're like the 6th girl i've met this week whose reading that book. Then she started talking about the book. and basically, after stacking, I said to her, you know you're a fun person to chat with, we should go for a coffee sometime. And I said, whats the best way to get in contact with you? And she gave me her number...
I basically went into the set, in my own state...no pump up or anything...I went in and started with comfort, got playful in the middle as I made the interaction last longer and had a genuine conversation with her. No routines, nothing whatsoever...
The second set I number closed, I asked a girl where the store Guess was at the mall. I told her I was not familiar with the area, and she said there was no Guess. and I asked her, do you know any other stores that are similar, like American Eagle or anyhting like that? And then I transitioned into talking about a party i am going to in Michigan next weekend and taht I need to buy new clothes for it, asked her if she lived in that area and asked her whats fun around there, etc, and I got her number and she took my e-mail as well cuz I told her I was in the process of setting up my facebook account.
Again, I used no canned routines or anything... Just went based on what she gave me, and had a genuine interaction.
Instead of going in pumped up, and emotioanlly charged, all of a sudden demanding the other person's attention, I went in completly low-key, and basically conveyed to them taht tehy had the perfect freedom to walk away, adn that I wouldnt mind, and it wouldnt seem awkward at all
They all chose to stay... Cuz they didnt have to... And I had a justification to talk to them every time I opened, and it wasn't some big justification, just a situational gimmic that was genuine and autentic....
It's simple.... This way its possible to get to know dozens of chicks...realllly fast...
Actually sounds pretty good and nice confidence booster for newer people. If you do that to 10 decent looking girls, I bet even a noob can come away with a few contacts. Definitely going to try this.
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