In my experience dealing with women and reading these articles, women aren't shit testing you...They're just expressing an opinion, or asking you to do something nice. And unless the request is unreasonable doing it won't make her think less of you, it will just make her like you more.

I used to do the whole "game" thing and follow the basic principles of pickup like gospel. It worked, but what works a lot better is just talking to girls honestly, not being a total suck up, and just being totally comfortable.

Sure use game to start with an build up your confidence, but basically the more you can cut out of your interactions with women, the less stressful the whole experience will be and the easier dealing with women will be and the more you'll want to do it.

In the end, you'll get laid a lot more without worrying if she's shit testing you.

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good post!

i agree with this to a certain level but i mean surely there are some definete 'shit tests' out there.I for one know the next time a girl asks me to get a drink i am not just gonna say 'SURE!'.i will tell her something along the lines of she should get the first round cause thats how me and my friends roll or something.

Anyone else have some definete shit tests to look out for.
but i do agree...im sure most guys look like real silly assholes when they mis interprete everything little saying or question as a shit test

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yeh you're right, there are some that are definitely shit tests, your example of the "buy me a drink" is perfect. But some guys seem to think anything even remotely compromising is a shit test. I saw one post where a bunch of guys were saying girl opening up to them is a shit test.....nonsense....if a girl opens up to you she likes you...admittedly it might be as a friend, but she's probably already put you in the friend zone if that's the case. I just think guys need to get real and stop taking things too far.

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Shit tests are still going on in these normal interactions, but you've just naturally learned to deal with them. I agree that beginners blow the concept way out of proportion, as all it takes to pass them is to treat her as an equal.

The "buy me a drink" request can actually be a blessing as long as you don't leave her to do it. Have her come with you or order one from where you are and it can be used to keep up the interaction or even isolate.

Huh? what is this crazy language of shit tests??? If a chick asks for a drink and I know her and I want to then yes... If its anything else... Then i shut her down like any PUA should.

any kind of tests at all arent cool. she should be in the kitchen naked with an apron on of course. making me a fuckin omelet in the morning. she shouldnt have time for tests.

this just made my night. Lmfao

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There are only a few things that i would count as shit tests. Things like asking you for drinks and testing you for compliance are shit tests. The girl is trying to see how much she can manipulate you and get you to do things for her. If you will do anything for her she will assume you're just doing it to get into her pants. She might take advantage and get you to spend all of your money on her and do little jobs for her, but she won't be attracted because that is just weak behaviour. I would never ask someone "are you gonna buy me a drink?". If I wouldn't ask it and I think it's quite rude then it's probably a shit test.

Things I don't count as shit tests are when girls ask you questions to find out whether you're a player etc. Here she just wants to know whether she should give you her time. She just doesn't want to go home with you and have you not respect her the next day.

yeh man, that's pretty much what I feel. But a lot of guys new to the game seem to think that literally everything a girl does that isn't in complete compliance with your wishes is a 'shit test'. And that promotes a negative attitude and will cost them more pussy than it wins them.

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