Right, so I met this girl yesterday through a mutual friend, we got talking almost instantly, we were flirting, playfully arguing, arm touching, she playfully slapped me, lots of eye contact, the usual, I got her number as we were leaving blah blah blah.

But, she has a boyfriend. Now a look at her Facebook profile seems to show that shes crazy about the boy shes with, so, why on earth was she flirting like she was with me and showing all the signs of being interested in me? Where do I go from here?

Jump in a boiling oil

Well, could be she was flirting with u to feel attractive or really interested in you, just try to build more comfort with her and dont act too needy, she may or may not really into her BF as u may think not until u get a clear situation of their relationship, women could be in a relationship but are prepare to jump ships.

Just keep gaming her.


Good luck son.

I agree with omans. While ago I had a girl giving hell of a lot IOIs and talking in such a way that her BF is not an obstacle really. She was actually saying that before u are engaged there is nothing wrong trying other guys.

Thanks guys.

I feel as if I'm pretty successful at opening, I can get their attention and gain their interest but after opening, I just get stuck, I don't know where I'm supposed to go from there. Any tips on subjects I could talk about, and how to lead into a conversation?

I'm fairly confident that once I get past this sticking point, i'll be able to Kino Escalate to a number or kiss close. My sticking point is maintaining a good, interesting conversation.

Nouning the conversation. Just look for key words. Say she says, (Thanks Neil) "I've been working as a paralegal in town for six months". This has lots of key words, all of which can move into various conversations. You could tell law related stories, find out where she works; ask what a paralegal does; tell her a story about your best or worse job; ask her opinion on a recent trial; discuss challenges of surviving school' find out if she's new in town; or tell her to quit her job because you can get her a position as a chief counsel in your brothers lawn mowing business.

With practice you will be able to lead conversations so they are always beneficial.