Hello guys, this is my first post ever here in this forum. I'm from Italy, so most of the time i'll have to translate what HB's say
So, I'm a total AFC...working my way out let's say. I started reading forums and many books (mystery method, the game...carlos xuma also, I find him pretty interesting), watched many videos etc. but I'm ABSOLUTELY no PUA, I'm just learning.
What I did in the past days was change my style a little to get more attractive as a first impression.
What happened tonight is a girl, who is a friend of my bass player, added me on Facebook. I've NEVER seen her or talked to her before, I just knew of her existence so I talked to my friend and asked him if he did something to make her add me (he knows I'd like to meet some new friends) and he said...he actually told her some days ago but he doesn't know why she decided to do that today. Anyway, she's not contacted me yet and thought it was my turn to do it though I don't know what to say.
I was thinking of openeing with something like..."You know, when you add strangers on Facebook it would be nice to say who you are in the first place! =) "

Help me out =)

Most of the time when they add you it means they're interested, and so you don't need to overanalyse it. Most of the time I just say hi, pay them a compliment, start getting to know them, qualify them, make them laugh etc. then just get the number and meet them. Just be direct, have fun, make her prove herself a little, build rapport and she'll want to give you her number. I always get the number the first time I talk to them, and I always meet them as soon as possible. Don't seem like you're in a hurry or too eager to meet her, but make sure you don't become just another facebook friend. Just like when you game a girl face to face there's a window to escalate (like when it's time to go for the number, the kiss, to fuck her etc.) and if you miss the window you're gonna end up in the friend zone. Hope this helps