I am new to the game.

I have read the book 'the game' and it inspired me to make a change. I havn't had the best history with girls and I can see myself as how Neil Strauss saw himself before he started... hopeless. haha

I have ordered the mystery DVD and I am anciently waiting for it to arrive. I live in Australia so I have no idea how long it will take to get here.

I was wondering what staps can I take to get myself started now (b4 i get the DVDs).

Also I would like to get everyone's ideas about if this DVD set will help and if there are any other items that I should consider purchasing.

Also is there any information that I can get without paying an arm and a leg for.

Well if you have any questions in particular I may be able to help. First thing to start off with is getting rid of your insecurities. Block that part right out of your mind. Everybody has insecurities. It all depends on how you deal with it.

Secondly, if your shy, Try to spark a conversation with everybody you see. For instance, bum on the street, neighbor, co-worker, anybody.

Thirdly, Nobody is perfect. That incredibly beautiful girl you, she is not perfect. She is just like any other girl. If you can spark a conversation with people why should she be diffrent?

Remember, it takes many failures to finally succeed. Practice makes perfect. If you fail, remember that you will probably never see her again. So who cares? Do something daring. Be creative. Take all your good qualities and make them noticeable. It will help you draw attention away from your insecurities.

Nobody is hopeless.....

Hey I am in exactly the same boat as you are in. I have found that you can find a lot of information just by searching around online as lots of artists have free posts. Just google your favorite pick up artists (Derek Vitalio, Mystery, Juggler etc). Plus lots of their websites you can get free emails on reports and advice from them. Hopefully this keeps you busy and good luck. Message me if you want to keep in contact because I am looking for people to help me along the path.

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Start by reading some of the sticky's. Check out the most common shit tests and PUA opener threads. Also The wild one has posted some good one's that should help with inner game and understanding.

Here are some websites i recommend:

Doubleyourdating
Seductionbase
Player Guide
Bristol Lair
PUA life
Becomeaplayer
Seduction bible
Fastseduction101

The david deAngelo ones are probly best for newbie's.

Also there's alot of newsletters you can sign up too.

Welcome Gamed.

YouTube has a lot of great pick up artist videos.

A free eBook that you should read, which has ALL the fundamentals, is http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/02/13/ ... de-update/

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Virgin -> 60+ Girls in 6 Months!

G'day Gamed

From Canberra but in Sydney heaps. Born again AFC after 18 months of a cancer scare (I didn't even have it) and heaps of other medical shit that is elsewhere here. Seems all of this has f*cked my inner game no end.

Email me to say g'day or for sarging in Sydney