Unusual Sticking point?



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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 11:03 am 
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Ok this may sound really wierd but my sticking point is moving on from attraction to seduction...

I dont know how to do it, I seem to attract so much that they see me as a LTR, how do i get out of this statues with them now and move it onto seduction?

I do all my gaming in day-game as im not 18 yet


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 1:59 pm 
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First of all don't worry, it's not a weird sticking point. Lots of people struggle at that point especially at your age, because you won't have experienced much straight forward seduction.

Please everybody correct me if I'm wrong with any of the following but I'll try and give a quick summary of pointers I can think of.
To start with you'll have to put yourself and her into a position where you can start seducing her. So as you only do day game, you will either have to isolate her there and then or meet her again for a date at some point.

Quick quote of myself on how to choose here and one of my favourite set-ups.
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I have a couple of places available for dates, depending on the kind of girl she is. All of them have comfortable sitting areas with couches or such (for sitting with more than one person). Now what I usually do is make her choose where to sit, but I try and direct it towards sitting next to me. My favourite way to do this and also a way to see if she is interested, is moving to the further away part of the couch, but not sitting down and almost seem inviting (no gestures or anything too obvious though, just subtle body language) for her to sit down next to you.
This way it was her choice to sit next to you and that is the far more comfortable situation. If you chose your place right you ll have enough space to drink or eat, yet talk and come closer for kino too.
Alright, so now you are at a point where you can slowly start escalating. Lots of tiny steps towards the goal of kissing her. (Watch the video by gambler that the forum is featuring right now about micro escalation)
You start to kino during conversation. Light touches on hand and legs. If she seems a little uncomfortable and has her arms crossed try taking both her hands and uncrossing her arms for her. If that goes smooth she'll usually be a lot more open to talk and chat.
Now make the eye contact more frequent, hold it for longer, look at her lips every once in a while (especially moving from looking at her eyes to looking at her lips and then looking away again - or looking back at the eyes and holding it to build even more tension - triangular gazing I guess).
Breach the gap between you and her, come a little closer, and closer, and... . Sometimes I'll use a little in-joke or a funny comment about one of the other people in the place to come close and whisper it in her ear. "Oh my god, have you seen him/her do/wear [something]" and a little giggle at the end.

All these things will help you build tension between the two of you. Try and become more and more aware of this type of tension. See it in her, see it in you, feel it shift with your comments. It's quite a measurable skill if you have a "feel" for this, which I guess some people have naturally but you can learn it by paying attention. If you start noticing what I mean, you ll see that after everything you say and do, this dynamic and changes and her and your body language change with it. So you almost have an instant way of telling if you are doing good or bad and you can adjust whatever you were doing or saying accordingly, either do more of the same or change a bit. (This is basically a bit of cold reading).

Have fun with it at this point and try out whatever you can to learn. Push it really quickly just to see her push you off and to see how it is to be going too fast. Then slow it down until its so smooth and comfortable that she hardly notices you seduced her. I know I haven't mentioned anything about the kiss at this point but I don't think there is much to be said. I'm not a big fan of any k-close routines, a kiss should flow naturally from the rest of your seduction. When the moment is there take it, if you think NOW you'd like to kiss her she is probably thinking it too. (Please think with your head not your penis at this point :) ).

Hope I could help and feel free to correct or add on where you can,

Len


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 5:39 pm 
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haha, cheers for your input mate, helped me a lot

Ill keep the post in mind when i need it in play lol


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You're welcome, keep me updated on how it is working for you :).

Len


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 01, 2010 12:49 am 
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You're welcome, keep me updated on how it is working for you :).

Len
Haha, i did try the whisper one but the girl isnt very playful and just fake chuckled then changed the subject


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