Im in a really hard sitiuon. I was constantly hooking up with this one girl. like crazy shit, she would give me HJ's as we drove down the freeway. But then her grand pa got really really sick and she dint really want to hook up with me as much. and then he died. Now she dosent want to hang out with me nearly as much and i feel like she has lost intrest in me sexually. Ive been there for her and listend to her, tryed to make her feel better and acted like a "friend" i got her flowers and choclates was that a mistake? cause i feel like I'd be a really bad person to try and game her when something really shity just happend to her. i really do feel sorry for her. but its been a month since we have done anything sexual. we still hang out about once a week but we only kiss and talk. and im starting to think maybe she is just over me but i dont know cause she might just be depressed cause of her grandpa. But she tells me im amazing and how much she cares about me. did i get put in the friend zone? Im not close to my grand parents so i dont know how you feel when one of them dies. Do girls not usually want to fool around after somebody dies? am i self centerd bastard? Should i forget about her and go find another girl?

If you actually care about the girl and not just the sex then stick with her, she is definitely interested in you and is just going through a tough time.

If you don't care about the girl and just want sex then look for new girls while being 'there' for her as a friend. For all you know she could eventually want to fool around again.

thanks, thats a really good point. i do actually really like her. so i will probly wait for a bit longer.