I've tried this on MSN and it works well for getting a conversation started, and in some cases it works for getting girls on cam.

Here it goes:


Hi, I'm sorry to ask, but I really need a female opinion on something.
I have this friend who has just bought some stuff from (risque, lingerie shop - being English I go with 'Ann Summers') and she's on cam to me right now asking me my opinion on what suits her best. What do you think she means by this?

[FEMALE RESPONSE] "Oh, maybe she likes you or something?"

Well, that'd be really weird because I always thought we were friends...and she has a boyfriend. The thing is, she's reaaally hot and she's just there in her underwear and now she's asking me to come on too in mine.

[FEMALE RESPONSE] She might say a variety of things such as "Wow, you shouldn't do it if she has a boyfriend"..."Just go for it"..."Tell her how you feel"

At this point, you should try and make this female the centre of attention by asking her if SHE'D do what 'your friend' is doing, ie. going on cam on like that.

If it's a "YES" ----> "Well could I be really cheeky and go on with you instead please?"

If it's a "NO" ----> "Oh you're not very adventurous are you? ."

At the very least I've had a nice conversation that follows, but have also had some number-closes, and even some cam action too. This is just an opener though, from thereon you're on your own.


The beauty of this opener is that it includes:
Social Proofing - a 'really hot girl' is willing to cheat on her boyfriend just to get a piece of you. That really sells yourself high.

Setting a sexual tone - mention of Ann Summers/other variant, some girl wants you to go on cam in your underwear.

Versatility - can roll with her answers and also find out what kind of person she is.

Thoughts/opinions?

Good Luck




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Fantastic... all over this! Will report back results

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yeh i could totally see that playing out like that. I find cocky funny especially powerful and easy to incorporate using msn or facebook chat.

Actually one time a chcik started tlaking to me on fb and after i asked im bored entertain me with something she went cam on me, not what i expected lol.

An opener i love to use is if you saw her earlier in the day, open with "So i heard you were with a really hot guy at (the time you saw her earlier)" that normally gets a laugh.

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Yeah I've been doing this alot recently and I think it works because they feel important enough to be considered for such a big thing to happen in your life, so they immediately feel comfortable and engrossed in it. Girls love gossip don't they, so let them play into your hands!

Thanks for the feedback guys, hope you have success.
And yeahhh Moondance, that's totally something that I would do as it's the angle I work, cocky-funny is the way I'm going for and right now it's doing just fine




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Tried this one today. And it started out very well... however ater i told her somethink like... "well if she only was single..." She accused me for making the whole story up just becourse I wanted to see HER strip in cam.
I wasn´t really prepared for that and told her that I was very disspointed in her thinking that way of me... then she stopped writing.

Any Ideas how to proceed or should I just drop her?

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shhhhit thats a tough situation... normally i would do what you did... next time you talk to her pretend it didnt happen and hope she doesnt go cold

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Cause your response made her think if you are not there for sex, then what are you there for?

And when you say "I am not here for sex" which is implied or misinterpreted through that response, she's like this guy is a liar. So she stopped talking to you. Either this or she wanted you to say "well. Yes. How you know?" LOl [being honest]

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There is a way for you to proceed actually. Just hit her up again, and say that you were sorry about the other day. THen she will reply for what? Then just say [well, yes I did want to see you strip. and I am sorry i lied about that.

This creates intrigue. and she might respond.

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