Im of the line of thought that most of the time it has to be on a false pretence, so that the HB does not give up her right to deny it was her intention to sleep with you, and that it just happened, for her own self esteem, so she can reverse rantionalise it and so her friends dont regard her a slut.


How do you guys get the girl back to your place then your room?

I think the easiest method is just to head back with a group. When your friends leave (or pair off with their HBs) you can make your move.

"come back and listen to that album I was talking to you about"
"you have GOT to see these photos I took while travelling"

I would say that she has to justify why she is going back to your place even if she really knows why. There needs to be justification. Can you use something you talked about to coax her back?

Im on your wave length here, dude. This is my line of thinking. I feel like I need a back up though, perhaps even something in my room that I could invite HBs back to see. Something different.

How about you pick her up before a party or something and then say "Damn...I forgot something...mid if we swing by my place?"

This way your place will be familiar territory beforehand.

What about just having a gathering at your place anyway? Then she will be at your place and you can start your magic?

Can you get something of her friends and pretend that she/he left it there? And then next time you pick her up you can do the "Damn... I forgot something..." The you can invite her in and go "wait there a sec..." or "oh...check this out while your here!"