Ok well i met this girl at a uni and got her FB, she seems to want to go to a university called brunel, i too am interested (diff subjects) it seems like shes trying to get me to go there lol from fb chat (this will be in 1 year)

she lives 2 hours away from me currently can LTR work well at long distances? cos i was gonna ask her to come london (2 hours from her) when i talk to her more through the summer until then ill game other girls

what do you all think

there is a very specific subset of conditions that a LTR works long distances.

you know the person intimately (for instance, you've been seeing/fucking her for years), there are constant visits, and there is absolute trust.

in your situation. no, they won't work, unless one or both of you are unhealthily needy.

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Hmm ok, she seems to be wanting to push me into the same university that she wants to go to so im taking that as a huge future IOI, maybe for now she just wants a F-Buddy, how do i find this out?

Don't do it. I've tried it, it blows. It wasn't 2 hours though, it was 4 hours. Once things go sour, you will be very bitter for putting in all that time, money, and effort to see somebody who was just a temporary interest. Getting laid ain't worth that much.

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lol cheers for the advice mate

longdistnace is hard as fuckk thats all i'll say.

It really depends on what your wanting and her personality. I met my girlfriend a couple of years ago on Myspace ironically. She lived close to my hometown 3 hours away and I was in college.

We msged through myspace, texts, and then started talking on the phone for like 3 weeks before we ever met.

For me it's been a huge success. The entire relationship so far we've been almost 3 hours apart until recently. Now we're 2 hours apart because I graduated from college.

But, before you dare entering a LTR LDR relationship. Know it's going to take a lot of work and maturity. LDR are hard to maintain after that 1st big fight.

My advice: If your just entering college. Don't do it. I promise you don't wanna miss out on the girls and all nighters before you. LDR should only be for a guy that is wanting to settle down because of the ample amount of trust and commitment to making it work involved.