Now, instead of hating me and apparently wanting to kill me, what would you do in a situation like this? Better yet, is there anything you could do to keep her from doing this to another guy?


This is a PUA forum. You don't seem to have read up on any of it. Pretty much all of the science can be summed up in the phrase Nothing is a big deal.

I cannot believe you think a major outburst of cruelty is doing you any good in this situation at all. I'm not being sympathetic to the girl here, the very opposite. With your emotional outburst you show her that you really, really care about her and are really, really hurt by her. Those are big rewards for her whoring. Hell many women would just cheat on their man just to get that reaction from him.

In every case I can think of where a woman behaved as you did, I knew for absolute certain the girl was passionately in love and lust with me. I knew I owned her at that point.

What you should do:
Just let her do her speech, smile, mention something briefly about the relationship coming to a natural end and how you had a really great time together and then move on. Maybe thank her, as you had a real connection with another girl recently and you wanted to pursue that.

DO NOT REWARD HER WITH ANY KIND OF EMOTIONAL REACTION AT ANY TIME.

Then cut her dead, don't communicate with her again. If she talks to you be polite but always have something else to do.

Silence is a far more effective a weapon than an insult. It might be worse to be hated than loved but it is much worse than either to be simply ignored.

As to how you can stop her cheating again, you can't. Women (and men) are hard-wired to screw around, live with it.

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Damn I didn't read all the responses but it's obvious people hate the OP (well I can't really blame them)..

First of all. I've always been a firm believer in "Alcohol brings out pre-existing dormant emotions/feelings...but it doesn't create new ones"..therefore the girl being drunk has nothing to do with the fact that she cheated.
She did cheat. Regardless of the alcohol. Had alcohol not been a factor, she probably wouldn't have cheated. But there always would have been something deep down within her that would have made her unhappy and constantly tempted to cheat on you.
So I'm not going to say this girl is innocent. If she is not happy in a relationship, she shouldn't hurt other people by fucking them over.

I'm not going to judge the guy either. He got CHEATED ON. He obviously liked the girl and she fucked him over like that. Everything he said was probably out of anger. So I'm not going to judge him based on actions. If the girl hadn't cheated on him - I doubt he would've said that shit.

However with that being said: Judging by your name, your post, and just a plain hunch, I take it you aren't that old. Probably 18+ but not too old.

If thats the case. You need to take a look at yourself and think, why the fuck have I been cheated on TWICE in the short amount of time I've been doing this shit.

Instead of taking it out on the girls who did it to you. Think of it as a sign that perhaps you need to change something about YOURSELF (and that might include not dating insecure girls who were probably unhappy with you but too scared to break it off.)

I totally understand what you mean. Women are a mystery, and we are all on different paths to understand them. All paths are different, but none are right and none are wrong, just different. Everything you said is correct for someone on the Alpha path. And everything I said is correct for someone who has studied female psychology. Both are right for their respective users. Like different tools for different jobs.

Unfortunatly the rules of game, and the rules of relationships differ.

Not caring, really isn't much of an option in a relationship scenario for practical but also emotional reasons.

WTF is wrong with you Herne? I really hope you're being sarcastic.

Unfortunatly the rules of game, and the rules of relationships differ.

Not caring, really isn't much of an option in a relationship scenario for practical but also emotional reasons.

The rules may differ in general but not in this instance.

Whether you care or not is immaterial. There is no part of an emotional response that isn't bad in this situation. Of course you have feelings, this is not the time to show them.

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sometimes when i read some peoples posts the words Uncle Tom keep coming into my mind i don't know why

Unless those are feeling that move the relationship forward and past this, feelings like forgiveness and understanding. The basis of good relationships (Long term romantic or otherwise).

Every relationship will hit rocks, pretending you don't care about what happened on the weekend, endagers it even further and if the relationship stays ntact after that insidence, that responce will make those scenarios MORE likely.

I will play devil's advocate here. Yes it probably felt good to say that. Fortunately I have never been on either end of that situation.

Oddly enough whenever I get into the inevitable cheating conversation in a relationship I front load this "routine."

If a girl ever says something to the effect of "Would it upset you if someone cheated on you." I just respond "I would be thankful, because she would just be ridding me of a whore. No one worries about losing a whore"

This way if it ever comes up you are not being vindictive since you warned her before she was in the wrong.

If anyone ever did cheat on me and I knew it for sure I have a plan. I would gather my shit when she wasn't home, leave her shit in a pile on her floor and never speak to her again. No closure for her and I'm not a prick.

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Please, and i really really mean this... lock this topic please! Bury this post, and let it rot!

This world is filled with all kinds of people with all kinds of emotion. Isnt the essence of PUA to accept people for who they are? Yes, OP's method is not the most popular and wasnt the best choice but thats what happened based on how he felt at the time. I dont think anyone of us is in a position to point fingers and crucify him.

And on that note, his actions were purely out of self gratification and showing these emotions after getting cheated on is never a good idea for any standards of being a PUA. But, it's amazing how a mind works and plots to seek vengeance on someone who has wronged them and anyone who denies this does not deserve to post anywhere on these boards. It's hypocritical to think his situation is unique to have acted this way or that he's a bad person for doing so. What OP needs to realize is doing this will only make himself feel better in that instance and in the long run, make everything related to her and that experience that much more painful.

A solution that im recommending...is to learn to be the bigger man. It SUCKS to swallow that pride and opportunity to slam someone who's hurt you but think of the long run. When you look back on this experience a year or two from now, do you want to look back on it with bitter memories of a shouting match and crying? Or having the REAL advantage of looking into her eyes as she begs for forgiveness and being the BETTER man and just walking away? If vengeance is what you really want, living life like the better man will drive these people so much more crazy than getting back at them the way that you did.

Your a human like anyone else on this board, and I refuse to have anyone tell me what a piece of shit I am because of something that I did. It's counter-productive and there ultimately doing it to make themselves feel better. I've made some threads im not proud of but the constructive answers that offered real solutions were so much more powerful than people looking for an ego boost at my expense.

The "victory" may seem sweet in the short run, but being that better man and handling things maturely will make you feel so much better through life and will give you alot of respect from everyone you meet. You cant change what you did but I hope you dont use this "routine" anymore. Your not a better person by doing this.

Just like accepting a girls sexual past, guys forget that GUYS have flaws and have made mistakes in their pasts and are making mistakes now. If you're not willing to understand and help a fellow man overcome a mistake that he's made, you've essentially brainwashed yourselves about womens mistakes being so easily forgiven and being "human" for the purposes of getting that much closer to getting laid if your so quick to condemn OP and not even try and give constructive advice.

Nice... ....upon asking the question, she gets an answer that shows her exactly WHY she should cheat and run as far as way from you as possible (unless ofcourse she turns out to be a spineless excuse for a woman.)

Then you void yourself of all responsibility and act like a cowardly quivering cunt by RUNNING AWAY from your problems.

This "routine" is the kind of thing you might say in the heat of the moment, blinded with anger. Perfectly reasonable. But then you start thinking that you where too hard on her, start feeling bad and you end up calling her to apologize.

YOU DON'T MAKE A FUCKING ROUTINE OUT OF IT and post it on a forum! You don't fucking brag about calling any girl a whore. You do not EVER call a girl a whore and feel content with it after a reasonable amount of time. That just shows that you're being a dick.

First of all,

IF you sleep with other girls while being in a LMR, you can have absolutely no - none, nada, zipp, none whatsoever - objection to her sleeping with other guys. You may say "but that's different, I'm a guy and girls are not supposed to act that way, that's just being a slut". Now, the thing is, there is no such thing as a slut. There is no reason why a girl can not do anything that a guy can do. Absolutely no reason. I don't give a fuck about how many guys a girl has been with, because it's my conviction that how many girls I've been with is no one else's business. And I have to be consistent.

ELSE, if you didn't sleep with other girls while being in a LMR with her, still, don't try to tell me you didn't think of it. Hey, in my AFC days, I always considered myself to be the faithful type. Still, on a few occasions I just couldn't keep my hands off other girls, because buying temperature was high, they made themselves extremely available and I was waisted. Does that make me a whore? "No, 'cause you're guy, Mungo"? Doesn't work that way. And don't you fucking call me a whore, OK?

THEN, treat this for what it is - an unfortunate situation in which everyone is a loser. As it seems to me, you're the biggest loser, and you had the bad taste of making sure to show it off to as many of her friends as you could.

Congratz..

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This thread really worries me.

There is a hell of a lot of anger out there towards women's sexuality.

Insecurity?

Don't get it.

On the one hand guys are trying to get girls to loosen up and become less inhibited in the bedroom and then they are calling them whores and sluts for obeying their bodies desires.

No wonder women are fucked up.

Just my thoughts

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