I have admittedly screwed up several times with the girl I'm seeing. She's very hot and cold with me; last week she was all about me but this week...not so much. I've done freeze outs in the past that were successful, she always texted me after about five days wanting to get together (maybe I should have made her wait longer).

She broke up with me a few weeks ago because she "freaked out". She's a bit of a loner and says she's just not good at seeing someone. Then she says that I really "get" her. It's interesting, for someone that knows nothing about gaming, she sure seems to be playing me.

I want to keep her around partially because I'm curious to see if I can get her to chase me, but I need some pointers. I'm not sure how exactly to deal with the hot/cold things she does sporadically. Any advice?

If you guys need more info I'll definitely update.

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Have you tryed matching her state.. and also rewarding her when she is "hot" and negging her when she is being "cold"....

I have at certain points but never for long periods of time. I'll definitely try it though, thanks

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So I've looked at your past 3 or 4 posts, and about half of them are "...". Do you actually have anything helpful to say rather than bumping old threads for no reason?

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