Seriously if anybody here ha a problem with his belief system go Google Anthony Robbins and learn from his lectures.

you are so negative butters i am of Pakistani decent. i dont let race be a problem and if a chick is rejecting me of race then fuck her. You have such a limiting belief. CHANGE IT NOW

Cambodian here. it's not about race, partner. it's strictly about ur game. people don't chose who they are attracted to. if u flip the attraction switches in someone, they will be attracted to u. if u do not, they wont' be attracted to u. it's really that simple.

and to be frustrated that you have to "work twice as hard as a white guy" is ridiculous. why stop there. why not be frustrated that u have to work harder than a more attractive guy. or a taller guy. or a well hung guy. or a.....get the point? no excuses. i'm 5'6. sure i wish i was taller. but u know what i noticed?when i'm gaming, i am 10 feet tall. seriously. in my eyes i am, and in my targets eyes i am. almost literally. (any other of my short brothas experience this phenomenon?) something happens in your minds, and all excuses are out the window.

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i am asian chinese and i live in belgium and i have white girlsfriend.


some girls just aren't attracted to other 'colours' soo just ignore them and the next one.

maybe the next one loves your 'skin colour' and really really want you

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I'm white-hispanic, but when i was in the U.S. i noticed this could only be an advantage, american girls loved my accent and brown eyes, and they seemed not to have any problem with my really dark more native-american look alike friends.

Also a beautifull american female friend, had a black boyfriend who looked exactly like bob marley lol.

I don't think it really affects that much, at least with "1rst world girls" with a more liberal mind, specialy american girls.

But i've read alot that american girls tend to dislike asian guys,specially really yellowish mongoloid-eye looking ones, you should check the Asian Playboy website , he has some tips for them.

In theory girls should like guys from different races because they are from a diferent tribe and have genetic diversity, but it may all come to individual tastes, for example i don't sexualy like black women as much as other women, but a friend likes them more than others.

This is a really interesting post.

I'll be honest. I'm actually an indian guy but have no indian friends whatsoever. I've grown up around white people and to me i'm pretty colour blind - as in I hardly ever factor in race as an issue because i've never felt discriminated against.

But the truth is, how am I to know? I'm almost sure my pretty awful track record has nothing to do with me being an awesomely witty, if not a little offensive, indian guy - but I'll never know. They say, if you're black and post a profile on the net, even if you have a great profile 2 times as many women don't look at your profile. This kind of stuff is subconcious, we don't conciously say make the choice, but the imputus to move forward isn't there.

Here's an example, my friend and I took a straw poll amongst our mates and basically they said we're pretty much equal on the looks factor. He's a lot balder than I am, but he's white. So we put our best pictures on hot or not. My best average was 7.1, he's was 8.3 - ok so what does this mean? On average it takes someone 2.5 seconds to rate someone on hot or not, so usually the outcomes are based on irrational subconcious desicisons.

Anyway, these are just stupid ramblings. My point is that as a white person it's easy to deflect this question. I think race has a little to do with it, there will always be people who will not want to be with you because of your colour. When I was in SF we went to a club which was predmominantly filled with asians. That was a utter disaster, I actually think Asian girls are more racist than white girls! At least i'll still look good when i'm 40 so fuck them.

What was i talking about again?

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Hey Butters,

I've been in your shoes. You should try to find some Asian mentors to hang out with.

That's what helped me the most.

i have quite a few Asian friends and they seem to have no trouble getting women of all races...even my sister is dating an asian guy and she is black...but im on the west coast, and the women tend to have a cooler vibe than those on the east. so you might have to move out here. i recommend either san diego or they bay area