Hi guys new to the foum and new to being single.....

I require some help and advice, Hopefully some of you guys will be able to help.

I recently went on a night out and ended up in a lapdancing club, i paid for a dance with a nice looking girl, i had the dance and then went back downstairs with her..

We spent the next 30 mins chatting to each other and she seemed interested to talk to me, not for my money as she had already had a dance... It came for me to leave and she said add me on facebook and i will speak to you on there.

I have added her on facebook and now have her number, she is going away on holiday next week and wont be back for two weeks, i have asked her to go for a drink and she said she would. The only problem is it wont be for a couple of weeks and i am worried she might loose interest.

I have been talking to her on FB, the only problem is she is very short, has not been involving her self in the conversation to much, i am in two minds to how interested she is, on one hand she has said she wants to go for a drink when she gets back, i have her number and facebook, but then when speaking to her she goes offline without saying bye, she has short answers and rarely asks anything to intiate more convosation.

Sorry bout the the long post but from what you have heard do you rekon she is interested and we can a date orginised and if it is how can i help improve the situation.......... Or is it a waste of time and she will only go on holiday and slowly stop talking



Any help guys would be greatly appreciated

Hm, unless you have any reason to think otherwise - sounds like she's just gaming you for lap-dance commission. Read about it a few times before. It's probably not even her real FB account!

Well it is deffo her FB account cause it has all her pictures on there about 30 albums so it deffo her.


She even said she was not just gaming me otherwise she would not be talking to me on facebook. It;s just if she had not already agreed to go for a drink i would almost be certain she was not interested.


Time will tell i suppose, but she has agreed to do something when she is back, just see what happens