So.... I have this problem. I'm extremely impulsive


So it all started with me calling up my one-itus. Over the phone I tell her how she makes me feel and how I've been thinking about her. While she was at work(of course). Needless to say it didn't work....

My one-itus is confident, self assured etc etc. I am geeky, working on inner game, sorting my life out. building value in your life and your identity is important. "be the flame not the moth" Lesson learnt.

So I get on the bus to go to my friends. Looking very sharp. I see this cute girl sitting by herself. "hey! I'm Chain! hows it going?" Big smile, playful mood. Though in my mind I'm thinking "fuck the world I gotta find me anouther girl."

She smiles back, and says her name. I tease about saying her name when I said "how are you" (it wasnt the most stimulating conversation. I would say that the energy was there and I was getting compliance) And then I gueesed her age. Though the conversation was cut short one minute later by her ringing the buzzer for her stop.

Chain: hang out with me sometime! *hand her my phone*

We text back and forth 3 times in an hour. Mainly about gueesing her age. I call and she doesnt answer.

3 weeks later(today):
-she texts me saying she's sorry, that she run out of credit.
-I text her "sweet, because I thought you were kidnapped
-She texts back that she was abducted by aliens
-I text her back that I hope they were gentle

Yeah so I'm planning to keep it silly and sexual. Text off occasions, stay on her mind. But don't text too frequently. And then say "hey your pretty cool. I'm learning skateboarding now, we should hang out" and then doing something like escalation ladder on her. I live at home and she lives at home but if I build up

The irony is I was lecturing a lesbian a few posts back. Telling her that she should change in order to get the girls she wants.

I'll be honest with you all, I don't know if I have the skillset to fuck girls in daygame because I've never picked up a girl I've met in the day.

So right now I go about building up my life. I open a few sets, here. But the few I do open, I aim to close. I find I get too detached and do lesser quality sarges when I approach large amounts of women.

Is there a question in here? Okay, so it sounds like you have a plan with texting at least. It shouldn't take you three days of texting to work up to asking her to hang out; that's lame. It's hard to build attraction over text, I don't believe anyone who says otherwise. You have to focus on giving her enough comfort to be willing to meet you. This shouldn't take more than 10 texts. If you made a good impression when you had her in person, it should only take 2, but it doesn't sound like you did. Tell her a little about yourself, ask her some interesting questions and show interest. Calling was a good idea, see if you can't get her on the phone, that'll get things going much faster.

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31 and still figuring it out.