Yesterday this girl asked me to go over to her house late at night, and she would sneak me inside to her room while everyone is asleep. Unfortunately I couldn't that night. So I told her i would be able to a different night. We decided Wednesday would be the best day. However she is going to be up all night and day beforehand, so she said she might be too tired.

My question is: How could i avoid her saying no because she is too tired without looking too needy?

Also, any ideas how to close smoothly in this situation?

If a girl is making excuses ahead of time, there's a good chance she's going to use them when the time comes. She's very politely telling you 'no' already. You avoid being needy by just accepting it when she says she can't and asking when a better time would be. What was so important you couldn't do it Tuesday?

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31 and still figuring it out.

I had no way of getting to her house on tuesday. I didn't have my car.

Good advice minsok.

The basic pattern is - try to move forward, if she turns you down, back right off, let her know it's her choice, and do something else. And try again later.

I had sex with a shy girl by applying that pattern compressed. I stopped touching her, rested back casually, said it's her choice. Went back to making out (it's as if we're just going to make out now intstead of have sex) but then move forward again. She gave in a bit more each time. I think if she continued to resist then I would have reverted this push-pull to a higher level - don't do anythign that night, maybe scale back the interest, then show interest again a later day and try moving forwrad again.