A lot of my friends have moved in with their girlfriend during the last year. More or less everyone of them have experienced a sexlife with less sexual spark. They all admit it and a general describtion of the situation would be:

"We see each other naked a lot more than before, and it's not that exciting anymore. A nice way of picture it: when I go showering she can shout "Get done, it's my turn" instead of "Open the door Honey, let's shower together." The sexual spark isn't there anymore, what have I done wrong?"

To all of you who live with your gf, how could one avoid a situation like this? Tips?

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I have lived with my gf for 6 months now and the key is to try new things! get a little kinky and dont be shy! you have to talk about what you like and what you want to do.

After moving in with my gf she has really opend up to me sexualy! we try all kinds of diffrent new kinky things that I would have never thought I would have done before I moved in with her...but our sex life is amazing!

You know what's funny - I find I think of all these outrageous fantasies once I'm away from my girl (in an ltr) for a long time, eg. on holiday - or have broken up with a girl and think about her afterwards.

It comes down to this spontaneity that you just don't see if you're too bored or careless or shy/afraid.

I've been practising tapping into that mindset when I'm IN the moment, not afterwards, and when I manage to do it, BOY does it pay off. You live your fantasies.