well is not good to admit but sometime it happen that i couldn't have an erection and so i couldn't have sex.
this happen to me just in one night stand, never in a relationship.
more often happend when i wasn't expert yet with girls but sometime it still happen.
i'm hundred percent sure that i haven't any phisical problem......i have erection every day and i really want sex.......even when i pick up a girl and i can't have sex with her the same night when i come back home i masturbate.
this means that is an anxiety problem.....i'm very contracted and when i'm there my breathe is blocked all the air is on my limbs.
i already have sex with many girls (also one night stand ) so i'm not knew but as i told you before sometimes when i pick up a girl the same night the problem still happen.
i need to find a solution.....any tips ?

I've had a very similar problem in the past. I saw my doctor and got blood tests to make sure everything was OK, it was.

He ruled out drinking as it happened to me drinking and sober. He said it could be anxiety and pressure to perform, the best option is trying viagra.

happened to me twice, i blame in the drink..Only times it happened was when i was most drunk

It is axiety and pressure to perform......but i don't like the viagra solution.
I'd like to solve the problem by natural ways.
If you solve your problrm you grow as a person....with viagra you will be the same forever.
the problem is how to solve.....any tips ?

First two times I had sex I couldn't get it up. Was embarassing as f***.

Don't worry it's anxiety.

It is anxiety....and i suffer of that also in other fields.
the problem is that i'm not new to sex.....i had sex with a lot of girls but still happen sometimes.
i have to find a way to beat anxiety......but i don't want farmacs.
i really don't know what to do.....a therapy is too expensive.....and there is a risk that doesn't work or the terapist sucks.
any advice is well accepted....anxiety is ruining my life

Its good being able to read this, since it happened to me last night.

In all honesty I was fairly shocked, guess I need to chill out abit more and just go with the flow... I know for definate that it was the pressure to perform that fucked me up lastnight.

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Tomorrow is another day.

If you don't jack off... this will never be a problem I promise you

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Another common problem that I used to think only I had. Best method to get rid of it is to be fully present in the moment, and think you're in a porn movie or something. Imagine you and her are playing the porn stars you see everyday on the internet. Does Peter North lose his erection? At least not on video. Be fully present in the moment, enjoy her body and the erection will stay naturally. Use her body as your fist this time. It will become much more enjoyable.

This might lead to that you cum quick as hell to

I have had this problem to. And when you think about it all the time, its getting worse.

The thing that helped me was to stop watch porn, or just not as much. Just jerk off using you own imagination. If you don't see boobs on film all the time you will get more aroused when you see then IRL. Also if you have some fuckbuddies porn is not needed so much.

I only found this problem with one night stands never with people I seen for a while. Theres always pressure on the guy to perform but the stress is often bigger the first time and if you just came from watching two hot lesbians getting it on... one semi hot girl might not do it due to some anxiety... If you hadn't watch porn this anxiety might not had caused any problem at all....