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I went out with my mate on saturday night it was our first real time going out to implement all we have learnt and been talking about doing for too long!
It was a 21st birthday on a cricket pitch, and we came in together with a great vibe, glasses full of cava and a full bottle of jager!
My mate made a beeline for a group of guys chilling on the grass bank, and after both parties had told a few offensive jokes..it was clear these were decent blokes up for a laugh.
There were a few girls obviously part of this same group but involved in their own conversation, but we largely ignored them and bantered on with the guys.
The theme of the party was a barn dance, which soon kicked off..which is by the way..fantastic. it involved having to be introduced and dance with most of the girls at the party, perfect for largely a newbie like me!
After some dancing and a good dose of negging warm up during the dancing, there was a break, so we grabbed a few more beers with the guys. they introduced us briefly to the girls, and then we carried on joking about with them. great high energyvibe!
We then all decided, in a slightly merry state to all play croquet, which was set out near the marquee. The music was starting again so my mate went for some more dancing with more girls, but I could see there was going to be a girl short of a partner if I left too. This girl also happened to be the one I had had half an eye on earlier in the evening. she was what my mate calls an 'alpha female' clearly the leader of the girl group, very confident and obviously used to bossing guys about...just the sort of girl i like..
So the croquet went awesomely..well the match was appaling but, I felt like I was running a negging masterclass, and she was lapping it up. MAny of the negs came from the banter i overheard from the guys we had been chatting to earlier, so in a way I was already part of their long standing group.
After some more dancing and drinking, I bumped into the girl and after a bit more chat, and by this time she was giving as good as she got, and a nice tension building quiet period with a bit of triangular gazing, we kissed. My god..not just a kiss...a hair grabbing and pulling sexual release..from both sides!
Part way through she stopped and announced I didnt deserve it and she needed more banter first. I cant really remember but I think I moved a bit closer, told her to shutup and pulled her head back, proper caveman style and carried on kissing her. She also tried the old congruence test of asking me what her name was...I passed but she then asked 'what am I not called' in reference to a nickname i had been negging her with earlier, when I replied she said ' oh you're so well trained'..not so good I thought!
So we separated for a bit and I was near the exit when I saw her flapping about leaving, but not leaving...walked over and said sarcastically but with a playful tone 'bye then' and she said bye and we kissed again. as she walked off i caught her hand and pulled her back a bit and asked ' so how are you going to call me?'
she turned to look at me properly and said playfully, 'oh they guys will have my number, i'm sure you can get it off them' and walked off.
What could I have done to avoid this response, or in response to it?!?
Also, now I dont have her number, but I have added one of her friends one of the guys on facebook i cant find her. Im sure he will give me the number, but can anyone suggest a good reopening to text/call her with once i have it?
cheers guys
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