long story short, met a girl, started seeing her and she asked to come back to my house a few times (to fuck obvs) but I HAD a girlfriend living there with me so it never happened. She knew about the other girl, but the last time I saw her (about a month ago) she found out she was my 'girlfriend', kinda freaked out. They both ended up leaving on the same day though, two days after the last I saw her, which was fucked for me (one back to france (gf) and the other to go berry picking) and so I went totally afc and professed my love to her. she came back in town maybe 10 days ago and i talked to her today, she told me she was going to a place we used to hang out at and told me to come. I tried to draw an anchor by calling her shmoopie (something she used to call me) but I don't know if it was really affective.

We've been open about our feelings (before the love professing) and we've had some really, really nice moments, but shes kinda banging another guy, but shes not faithful, and I might have proven my lameness the last time we hung out.

Comments additives suggestions?

call her and get some of ur friends and some of her friends to go somewhere and fuckin do something. idk how fuckin old u are but go like bowling or to a bar during the afternoon/early evening. just something to where she can be with friends and have a good time with you while still having her friends to lean on incase she gets creeped out. make sure you show her how fun u can be.

after doing so, if you didn't fuck that shit up you will now be in phase two. phase two you call her... not text... i live by a rule with phones and girls. if you fuck up, dont be a bitch and call her up.. that way u show dominance and confidence and arent going to be a pussy by hiding behind a little fuckin keyboard on a phone. when on the phone with her think of some place to take her that there isnt a lot of people. not a movie. not dinner. somewhere u can hook up with her. an example would be like a turnout on a mountain road (ive done this with my truck and putting a bed in my truck bed and laying and lookin at stars), beach for the sunset, mountains for the sunset, spa. somewhere u can just talk to her and if it escalates to it hook up with her.... idk exactly what u are looking to get out of this so hopefully this helped and didnt lower my reputation. haha

good luck, just giving my 2 cents

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I live in southern california. PM to sarge

call her and get some of ur friends and some of her friends to go somewhere and fuckin do something. idk how fuckin old u are but go like bowling or to a bar during the afternoon/early evening. just something to where she can be with friends and have a good time with you while still having her friends to lean on incase she gets creeped out. make sure you show her how fun u can be.

after doing so, if you didn't fuck that shit up you will now be in phase two. phase two you call her... not text... i live by a rule with phones and girls. if you fuck up, dont be a bitch and call her up.. that way u show dominance and confidence and arent going to be a pussy by hiding behind a little fuckin keyboard on a phone. when on the phone with her think of some place to take her that there isnt a lot of people. not a movie. not dinner. somewhere u can hook up with her. an example would be like a turnout on a mountain road (ive done this with my truck and putting a bed in my truck bed and laying and lookin at stars), beach for the sunset, mountains for the sunset, spa. somewhere u can just talk to her and if it escalates to it hook up with her.... idk exactly what u are looking to get out of this so hopefully this helped and didnt lower my reputation. haha

good luck, just giving my 2 cents

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I live in southern california. PM to sarge

so what ended up happening was we both went to the same place tonight, she brought her french lover (from france, just like my ex..) and we had a great time together. I picked up another girl, super hot, we were with all my people, I knew practically every girl of value in there and was talking with them. sometime during the night we went off by our own and sang songs to people for money and in about 10 minutes we made about 15 bucks. we talked about going across the country together, I lent her my book and we made plans for the weekend.

I could tell she wanted to kiss me, maybeeeee not, but she was with another dude and they were kissing but its no big deal, its happened before. The first time I made out with her she came with another guy she was kissing n shit.

I just hope it works out. I'm excited for the weekend.

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