Ok so I met this HB8.5 online. After exchanging a few emails, gave her my number, bringing up a meetup. By mistake, I also brought up some activity we could perhaps do at a later time point. I never do this with other girls, but we were talking about that activity so just thought I'd throw it in there. Bad move.

She replied with a nice email as usual, gave me her number and agreed to meet for drinks soon. She also mentioned in her email that when she sees me, she'll "interrogate me, and if things go well she might just agree to the activity I suggested".

I was not happy about this and simply froze her out for 3-4days, during which she keeps checking out my profile several times, almost every night.

I know I can't undo the mistake, but how do I recover from this and still see her without losing my dignity? Should I call her out on it by email and see if she apologizes?

Again, I know it was a bad move on my part to start with. Thanks for your help guys.

Ok, she has given you her number, TEXT HER/PHONE HER... meet up, let her try and interogate you and just take the piss like "omg do you always interrogate guys ?" or answer her questions... she may not even ask you.., why worry about something that may not even happen...

Don't know why you are making a big deal out of this. All you really need to do is meet up with her and take back the controlling frame from her. Besides I think she was flirting with you anyway so play on it with some C&F.

Thanks jtaz, jurupa!

I now realize I was over-reacting. Thanks for the dose of reality. I need to focus more on frame control. And that tip about just sweating her back about the interrogating thing is pretty slick.

The girl is good-looking and has her life together, I automatically assumed she was trying to show off a bit.

I will give her a call and pick up where I left off.
This forum has been very helpful.