hey guys i am a sophomore in college. i am in a fraternity here at my school, and we have parties every weekend. i am not socially awkward nor do i have difficulty talking to girls THAT I HAVE MET AT LEAST ONCE. in fact, some of my best friends are girls. i am having trouble opening women i do not know at parties. it seems to me that the standard opinion openers do not really work in such a loud, crowded environment. i was toying with the idea of isolating my target from the beginning but i know that is probably a pua sin. so my question is: how can a somewhat confident guy open girls he does not know at fraternity parties? i would really appreciate help. thanks.

well if its your party dont be a pussy and go introduce yourself...if they give you an attitude kick them out

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i'm a sophomore in college also. i went to three frats last night to practice my game (i am a beginner). i felt a little weird about using the classic openers but i tried just coming up with my own on the spot or if worse came to worse, i would just introduce myself. it started me off bad but it was cool because i would use negs and play the game and i actually got two numbers from fairly good looking girls. i was surprised because this was aggressive for me and i'm usually a more reserved guy.

my advice would be to come up with some openers and practice them (i need to do the same ) but once you have them just stick to the program.

also if you are a beginner like me, try to go for phone numbers for now to work on your opening and mid game. i noticed on the show how this is what they focused on the first few weeks so i didnt want to go straight for sex with a girl the first time trying. just start out slow and aim for phone numbers. from there you can advance. good luck at those parties out there buddy

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So how do you guys know the owner of the house __(name here)______?

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I'm a senior, form my experience, college/frat parties are the easiest place to pick up girls. In these crowded environments it is easy to simply bump into someone and respond with a CF routine. Girls are most likely more comfortable in these situations becasue they know a lot of people around them so conversation does not have to be forced and flows pretty easily. Also if you isolate the target, you are all ready on campus and most likely your room is conveniently close.

Lol Harsh but I don't see why you can't do that..I grew up with brothers and that is what they did!

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Alot of the time people are walking around aimlessly - they look like they're lost, so in those situations, I'll just say - "You look a bit lost" - that usually get's them saying something.

You can always just ask how people's nights are going as well - pretend that you're the host, and that you're looking after everyone - for this you need a good energy level, and need to seem like you're comfortable (or at home lol).


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yeah, unlike any other place, this is home ground for you and you should use that environment/situation fully to your advantage. ie invite them out for private parties or put em next in line for beer pong. shit that will boost DHV and their interests. dont be some host bitch but be really casual about it. good luck.