My college orientation starts in a couple of weeks and I am very confused on who I should focus meeting. My goal for college aside from doing well academically is to get this part of my life under control and thankfully college orientation will make hooking sets easier because people are nervous and just want to make friends. It will be easier because my reputation in high school won't follow me therefore people won't judge me as hard. I really want to focus my attention to talking to girls. That old saying "If you control the women, you control the men" is completely true but I feel women will get suspicious if I am spending all of my time trying to talk to them. Should I focus on talking to the guys more or girls or how should I split my time? Any advice on this as well as effective ways to approach during a college orientation would be very helpful.

this is very simple. you want to be the guy who is having the most fun and enjoying himself. You know the song girls just wanna have fun? There is soooo much truth in that, and if you put off the persona that you are one of thos fun loving guys whos up for anything and always has a smile on your face, half the battle is won!

Good point indeed but as you said, this is only half the battle. Of course, that mindset is important but the one thing I want to know is whether I should focus more on talking to guys or girls. I am still confused about that. This mindset will definitely bring me attention and get people interested but I need to know who should I approach. I feel as if I meet and hang out with mostly guys, I will not gain anything but if I do this with mostly girls, I will have progressed further but I feel the girls might get a bit suspicious.

I would make everything to flow naturally, I wouldnt go out my way to fully interact with everyone but I would make myself known easily by being upfront and speaking loudly and clearly so everyone in my group can hear me. I know in most orientation they split you up into groups and everyone explains where they came from, their name, hobbies and etc.

Who cares if girls get suspicious,your not exclusive with any of them, until you are then worry about talking to other girls. When you start college its all about networking, the more people you know the better off you will be in life and a pursuing career.

As well as the fact girls like guys who are consider players in a certain way, what I am trying to say is sometimes it can work in your advantage and sometimes not so well depending on how bad of stories you have. I have seen many girls at my university go for players because no body wants a person who no one else wants.

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