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PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 5:19 am 
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My questions are at the end after the field report. Thanks for your advice in advance!

I'm Chinese who came to US for college. I'm 22 rite now, and just graduated and moved to the city for a job. Decided to take this chance and really improve my pick-up skills. I have had quite some experiences with Chinese girls, and had hooked up with 3 white girls (scoring between 6-7). But there are two things I have not achieved yet: having sex with white chicks and feeling comfortable with really hot chicks. I'm 5'7, 178lbs, going to the gym regularly. However I have pretty strong prescription glasses. Tonight I wear a red t-shirt and jeans.

So today I started doing the Stylelife Challenge Day 1. I revised it a little bit as I have known some routines before. My goal of sarging tonight is to number close a girl. I planned to try about 10 sets. I ended up trying 14 sets, some of which are 1-set, some are 2. I designed an opener about asking for advice on buying a birthday present for my mom. I modeled my poses so that I appeared more confident and strong. And I walked along the streets at around 9pm and started opening sets. Most people stopped and listened to it, but this opener seems to be too mediocre to make them laugh or excited. So I tried telling them I'm just flirting with them when they were about to answer my questions. That works better as a neg, but it didn't get me anywhere close to a number. So I started using the "a friend of mine who works at a gym was offered $200 for a photo of his naked ass" line on 2 3-sets. People did react to this one. But I still didn't get any number. I decided to call it the night as I have opened 13 sets. I bought a cone at MCD and walked back.

I walked by a girl in her pj (about 7) sitting outside an apartment building, so I asked randomly,
"Are you enjoying your cigarette?"
"Yes. Are you enjoying your cone?"
So we started talking. I think she asked my name at the beginning of the conversation so that's an IOI. I got a cigarette from her and told the "'gym coach" line and started chatting. It went on smoothly. She's 26 and new to town too. We started talking abt schools and home state soror/frat and everything. I ran compliance test by asking her where the good bars are and asked her to type them into my blackberry. I naturally asked her to also put down her number (she said she would also write her name down) and I joked abt "that way I can delete it easily" she replied "that's funny". She gave me a lot of IOIs so I know it could work out.

I started teaching her how to pronounce my chinese name, and it's kinda hard for her, so I pat her arm and said "it's okay". So kino is good. Eventually, I said I have to go and asked for a kiss goodbye, so I kissed her on the cheek, and she asked for my name again. I said you gotta say it right. Otherwise I'm not leaving. She kept saying it wrong so I came closer and asked her to look at my lips when I was saying it. We went close and I kissed her on the lips. And then I left right away and she called me "slick" on my back.

In the process I happened to make some right moves that jumped into my head, including the joke about deleting her number, and also joking about if she wants, she can put down a fake number. Plus she put down both her first and last name.

Questions:
1) Should I have french kissed her at that moment? Or that would be a risky call?
2) Now I have her number. What should I do next?
When should I contact her, 1 day or 2 days later or during the weekend? I read the theory about girls are easy to get during the first half of the week coz men are mostly working/not going out. And calling her on Fri/Sat does sound like a booty call.

She mentioned about showing me some clubs/bars around. But I have not been a good night gamer at all. I'm not that good a dancer, and I'm a little short to draw attention at bars. Also it's hard to have a conversation. I'm thinking about having her over on the sundeck of my apt and chill there. What will be a good move if I want a f-close.

Any advice will be greatly appreciated! Cheers!
Also, this game is so amazing. I seirously NEVER EXPECTED A KISS-END tonight, haha.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 1:38 pm 
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let me start off by saying your opener for the girl you kissed is totally natural and a great way to open.

as for the french kissing.. ya you probably couldve, maybe not.. who knows.
its already passed, theres nothing you can change about it, so dont worry about it.

as for the texting, assuming you got the number on sun-mon try texting her tues-wed and just shoot the shit and you two can figure out a time to meet up if it comes to that. cocky funyn would be probably the best for you. it might be a dead end though, but it won't be.

good luck!

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 12:13 am 
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Man!

You really played it :)

Give her a call.. tell her you had an allergic reaction later that evening and you are woundering if she had something strange to eat that day.
Tell her you had to go the hospital and almost died, and that you actually just got home.

Then you guys go have some icre cream! ;)

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Hey guys, thanks a lot for your advice. I took it and got some progress. I will update it below along with some new stuff I did today. Feel free to comment on it. Plus, I will have some questions while reporting it. If you can give me some advice, I seriously appreciate it.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 3:31 am 
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The kiss-close girl.
I texted her at 8:05pm last nite (Tuesday): "Hey it's Alex from last kiss. Wanna check out the bars on Wed or Thurs?"
I waited for 2 hours. So nervous about it. The feeling of waiting a response is HORRIBLE. But I think I need to train myself to get used to it.
By 9:54pm, I haven't heard from her, so I sent her another one: "Cool. See you tmr at 9 then".
This is a move I kinda planned in case there is no response after the first msg. I think it might work coz the msg may confuse the girl and press her to response. Needless to say, it's defly DHV as opposed to DLV, b/c u acted as if she agreed to meet with you, and she must be like "wtf?! I never replied to this guy. What is going on?!" Just to throw this idea out there.
By 10:37pm, I just can't wait anymore. I was torturing myself and I wanted a response, either positive or negative, coz I just can't get my head out of this. So I called. She didn't answer it.
I thought it was dead and I gave up. I went to bed and at least had peace in mind.

Sidenote: it is really important that you have multiple on-going projects on hand with women, coz u won't care about the result of any one of them. And the truth is the less you care abt it, the more natural you are, and the more likely you are going to succeed. So next time I need to free my mind from the anxiety of making first move and openning more sets.


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But, somehow she replied at 12:04am and said "yeah let's hang out. Let me know when and where you want to."
So that sealed the deal. I waited next morning to anchor a date with her for tmr at 9:30pm. I frame my language so that it's always like" what time do you wanna meet, wed or thursday?" Limiting the options she have in the sentence and giving her little chance to say no.

So I may need some canned materials for tmr, things like icebreaker, jokes, games. Rite now I have this 5-question game from Style that works so well in all the girls I tried.
The game is to ask five questions WRONG.
First 3 questions can be anything factual, like "is it raining outside?". If you wanna add spice, you can try the question, "do you like me?" or "do you think I'm hot?". I have never tried, maybe next time.
The key is, the 4th question you must ask "what question is this?" If she says the third or the fourth, she fails. Haha, tricky, isn't it?
Well, if she's smart enough, she may spot this one and says 7th or sth. Then you can say, "wow, you win. Have you played it before?"
That literally would trick anyone.

One thing I tried and failed was to get girls into a bet about the game. Like if she wins I buy her a drink if I win she owes me a drink or sth. That never worked out well so far. Maybe if you build more comfort it could work. Advice needed here :)

Anyway, that has so far proven to be a great opener/routine for keeping the conversation going for at least 1-2min. The drawback is you can't play it twice.


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So in Day 2 the game is about Looking Into People's Eyes. I have practiced intensively in most conversations I have with colleagues and friends. The cool thing is I found out that it is not considered rude nor people will be pushed away by your staring. Instead, it exerted pressure and control to them, and showed them your interest of listening to them. I mean in overall it works for you not against you. Of course the key thing is you only do it when you are having a conversation or about to have one. NEVER stare at someone and end up not talking to them. That's creepy.

On the way back I opened a girl who has a nice physique. I was walking behind her so didn't know that she was like 10 yrs older than me. She was listening to music, so I had to repeat my openner one more time. So don't worry if the girl's first response to your opener is cold. She might have missed it. Try it again.
Me: Hey, do you do cross country.
She (HB 7.5): oh no.
Me: Well, you look like someone who do cross country.
She: Well, actually I'm a runner but I don't run cross country.
So we kept on talking. She works at a bar and organizes a city running thing every wed. That's cool coz I have been looking for a place to hang out. Plus it's cool simply just know a hot bartender.
So I naturally ask for the bar's name and her contacts. She gave me her email and I will email her later abt the running stuff.

One thing I have been practicing is to use Blackberry to my advantage. Instead of asking things from girls, like their contact info, a bar's name, an address, I pull out my blackberry and ask them to text it in for me. There are a few reasons I do it.
1) I'm not a native speaker, so I don't catch the naming or spelling that easily. I might hear a name but dunno how to spell it, like mixing Kathleen and Katherine up.
2) blackberry keyboard is a little confusing. So when girls type things in, they are put into a naturally weak position and they need to ask for your instructions. That's a very natural way of DHVing.
3) asking them to type it in is a compliance test. So you are actually hitting a lot of birds with one stone.

This is just my experience so far. But make sure to use any tool you have to your advantage. It's all in your mind :)


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