Gents,

Right to the point, shes 23 I'm 23. She's very attractive, and f closed on the second time hanging out. We've made plans to go to a MLB game next friday (A week and a half away), so it's not like theres a possibility that I'd not call her again. She's really cool and we have good chemistry, its just simply put.... what now?

I like hangin out with her, and this is the 'managing expectations' part which in not too good at.

When should I call/text her?

Any ideas how to bring up "expectations" or should I not do that. I'm pretty laid back and I certainly am not desperate in this case.


Any advice greatly appreciated.

Thanks Gents

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Mate are you guys official yet?

With regards to expectations my personal philosophy is... EXPECT NOTHING.

Now by that I don't mean go in with negative expectations in the sense that "nothing" is going to happen. What I mean is simply have no expections, as expectations may lead to disappointment which isn't much fun. Also having no expectations makes you more flexible which will probably work in your favour.

Nah we're not official yet, but all the tell tales are there in that she'd like to be eventually, as in shes tellin her friends about me and says that her friends like me blah blah blah, and asks me qualifying questions.

I like that philosophy, as in expect nothing, and I havent thus far. I mean she came over last night even though she had work at 6AM and a test the next day.

I'll take that approach, it's no big deal because it's not. I just dont want her to think that I'm just into a f*ckbuddy situation with her because at this point thats not what I want.

Just see where the chips fall I suppose, thanks mate

-Marlow

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"Who the f**k is Fanning?"