| Hey guys, what's up?
So I've had my eye on my hairdresser for a while now... I see her maybe every 6 weeks or so, and we have a lot in common. I never thought she'd be interested in me though, cos of the age thing. But I found out from a friend that she is interested in me, "if only I was a little older, and she was a little younger" as she put it herself.
So I get my haircut last week, with the intention of reading her body language to see for myself and maybe seeing how things go. So it goes well, I get her number and we decide to go for a quite drink that night (she has work the next morning) It goes well, it's just me, her and my gay friend. We decide to go to a gay club (at least no one will hit on her lol) and we meet up with more people. We have a good time, she shows all the signs of interest. I've already noticed that older girls are so much more direct and they don't give a s*@t about mind games like younger girls do. I love this!
So the night goes on, she brings up the age thing a couple of times. I just respond like it really doesn't matter, because it doesn't. So we kiss a few times, dance for a while. But then she brings up the age thing again. I just keep laughing it off, completely not bothered about the age gap. I wasn't sure if I should have had a definite answer to it though. I know it's a s*@t test or a bitch shield and she's only saying this because morally she kinda feels she has to clear it up or something. But I think nothing of it, we continue having a great time. She leaves at about 12, I was kinda hoping she'd stick around. Not sure if she left because maybe I didn't answer the way she wanted and I failed her s*@t test. But I don't wanna think too much into that as she did say at the start that she has an early start the next morning.
So the next day I find out she broke her phone and lost her keys getting home (we were after a fair few drinks). I manage to contact her eventually a couple of days later. She's pretty stressed, she blamed it on her insane roomates which resulted in her moving out, back into her parents home about an hour away from my place.
Anyway I thought it was going very well until all this drama afterwards. I'm not really sure what to do now... I text the day after I reinitiated contact about a party I was going to. She didn't reply but I mean she obviously has other things on her mind then partying, and probably had no way to get back home anyway if she did go out (I can't really offer her to stay at mine as I'm back in my parents house since college is over). It's almost a week later now and I'm still really unsure what to do. I'm really busy with trying to move out this week, and I know she's really busy with looking for a new place.
How should I go about this? I wanna ask her to come for a drink after work (she works down the road from me) but then she has no way to get home... If only I was in my new house right now I could invite her over anytime but it is complicated at the moment. And I probably won't be moving out for a least a couple of days. Any suggestions please?
Big thanks in advance,
G
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