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| Zachariah09 | PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 4:26 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Apr 25, 2010 8:29 pm Posts: 15 | | Im 19 and I have 0 friends. Im very socially akward and dont know what people do with
each other. I know some people like to go to bars and clubs but im not old enough for
that. What do people my age do?
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| EndersGame | PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:26 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Nov 05, 2009 7:32 am Posts: 80 Location: Santa Clara | | Okay first off stop saying that you are socially awkward. You know it, no one else needs to. You need to develop confidence in yourself and the things that you yourself do.
Have you any social hobbies? Something you occupy your time with? if you don't you need to find one. I myself was pretty nerdy and spent countless hours jamming away on my keyboard dominating galaxies and shooting up my enemies on the computer but i needed to find something else to occupy my time with that would put me in contact with people so that I could practice even being social.
I got a dog and joined an american pit bull terrier group that met regularly on the weekends to discuss training techniques, weight pulling, agility trials and that sort of thing. Everything i did was initially for my dog. He accepted me for who i was and trusted me to be a confident dominant leader of my pack who at the time was just me and him. After some time i grew confidence from watching my dog excel at obedience training and weight pulling. People were approaching me asking me how i trained my dog, how I got him to focus on my commands and so on. I learned how to talk to these people how to project my energy to be positive to simply show people that I was alive and kicking and had desires and dreams. You need to convey this to people for them to want to know you. Try to get into something like this. A car club, chess club, poker group, something that gets you talking to other people.
remember that joining isn't really the important step. talking, joking, playing, and having a good time is what you really need to be doing. _________________ *new to the game but looking for fame*
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