Hi guys!

Here is my field reaport for last saturday:

I went to a disco and started talking to a girl, I micro-escalated her (kino), she sat on my lap and kissed me, we exchanged phone numbers and she was very interested. Then we went to the dancefloor and started dancing very close, kissing and rubbing everything... then I started touching her pussy and after some minutes I was fingering her in the dancefloor!! (and she was masturbating me too). Then I asked her "are you sure you want to go to sleep to your friend's house?" (she was not from my town and was sleeping in a friend of her's house), and told yes... then I said "and will you allow this great night finish like this?" and didn't answer, but continued with what we were doing just before taking the taxi I told her something like "it's your las chance to come with me" and she left.


This afternoon I texted her to have a drink next friday, but she didn't answer.. do you think I went too far and buyer remorse appeared? I know fingering her in the dancefloor is not exactly what PUAs teach... so maybe I did go too far. What do you think?

Im not very experienced but i'd say asking her to come back with you was the mistake. Im reading Gamblers book at the moment and Its slipped my mind but I think the best way is to invite her back to a "House Party" only to find that your friends bail when your going there. Not mentioning anything about sex.. just drinks

and the question "Do you like fun?" to get her to agree to come back with you..

You are right, I was too direct... I should only have kissed her, let her dance with her friends a little bit more and hook her to come with me assuming that she would come and asking "do you like having fun?"... I guess I was too excited and a bit drunk.